The very first thing that comes to mind is that something has come about to threaten the stability of his marriage. Most guys that are unfaithful may not care for their wives but still wish to maintain their marriage. Guys, in general, tend to dislike change and a divorce can be one of the biggest, most devastating changes there is in our society atm. They may even still care for, or even love, their wives regardless how they feel, or SAY they feel about a mistress.
Long to short, stay away from married guys, they are trouble from the get go and will never be a stable relationship and rarely is there a future with one.
'Do it with me, do it to me' may be a cliche, but then cliches are usually the oft spoken truth!
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Because he is being careful so his wife wouldn't find out. He is a bit smart for stopping his affair with you, if he didn't things in his life will turn in a messy situation. Now what you can do is forget what the two of you had together. It doesn't matter if he said he cares for you, you will be that part time person to him nothing else. Change your life and move on
He probably cares about her but she should remember that she is his second choice. Otherwise she would be his wife and not his mistress.
So he wouldn't hurt her feelings and not get slapped
Yes, in that married man just feel about his mistress. I guess that feeling his mistress' simply reality
Most married men who cheat love the idea of the excitement and pleasure they receive from their mistress, but in most cases it is short lived. Married men often lie to their mistress so you are not really sure what feelings he had for you. Generally married men never marry their mistress.
A Companion was a young slave girl that a man would buy for his daughter. She would accompany her mistress wherever she went, like to the opera or to a visit. They would cater their Mistress' every need. When their mistress was married they were usually set free.
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
The only thing I can think of for a married man to think of his ex mistress is if he fell in love with her and he don't love his wife anymore, got spoiled on everything from her. And maybe his ex mistress is good in bed, not like his wife just doing the same old thing.
Yes, some men get jealous over their mistress, but this does not always mean the married man loves the mistress, but some men feel she is their property and in only a very few cases is it truly love. Remember, this married man has a wife and he would be jealous if his wife had another man on the string. Mistresses often lose when a wife is involved and if the cheating man really cared about the affair she would not be his mistress; he would get a divorce and either live with her or marry her.
Sit down and think, if it wasn't for the mistress, would you want to leave your wife? If you are doing it for yourself (and as a bonus get to be with the other woman that you love) then go for it!
The female version of Master is Mistress, thus it would be Mistress of Ceremony. "Mistress of Ceremonies" would be the plural, and would only be used if you were the Mistress of Ceremony for multiple ceremonies.
I would guess variety and an ego boost
I would call him a cheater and a lowlife, among other things.