Why do men make eye contact with other women when they are out with their girlfriend?

Answer 1

Men may sometimes look at other women because he thinks that they are attractive, but might not be attracted to them. Even if you have a husband or boyfriend, you might still think some other men are attractive. (Brad Pitt) But still, you have no intention of dating or being in a relationship with them.

Answer 2

Men look at women because it is his nature to do so. It's sad to say but everything doesn't have to be attached to sex or wanting a piece. Why do they make cars flashy looking or why do women dress nice ? Isn't it to look attractive in the first place. I know when I get dressed up , I want to look nice not only for myself, but look good commending that i work hard and like nice things. All kinds of nice things. Nice cars nice furniture and all things that look nice. A man can look at a woman because she has nice hair , nice smile , nice shape a pretty blouse or shoes . It isn't necessarily based on wanting to be with anyone else. My girlfriend looks 20 years younger that me yet she can detect a girl a mile away . Oh no , he's gonna look. I know all men look , and I see when they look at my girl . Women have to know that if they make themselves up to look attractive they shouldn't complain to their boyfriends for looking. I mean doesn't dressing to look attractive make her a player in the looking game as well ? Many men look at my girl and the way she looks , I don't ask her to dress in a cardboard box. If my girl feels as if she wants to be with someone else and thinks that the guy is better that me, I would have to let her go. I am not saying that I don't love her ,but life is life and the entire world does not revolve around me. Older men sometimes get younger women because our security comes from not giving a damn. Some ladies worry about every little wrinkle. Always be yourself ,live and let live. When a women is secure with herself it makes a man feel good. Think about it if you had to fight a war would you want someone next to you complaining , deep down inside they don't feel confident .Grey hair can look very pretty, it's really all in the way the person male or female carries him/her self. I wouldn't change who I am for anyone. This is who I am take it or leave it, is the attitude to have. Don't make people feel like crap if something within yourself is holding you down inside. Look up ,life is too damn short. Sometimes you may be better off by yourself. I have had women say that they don't look at men. But if you watch a segment of Oprah with George Clooney, my God I think they seem to like what they see. And once again ,it their nature. A woman complaining about a guy looking at girls is as immature and hurtful as a guy complaining about what a women wears. Unless he's truly just really sick and she dresses too sexy. It is draining the life out of me every time I have to discuss the same old crap. Listen, whether it's a nice car , a nice looking building or a pretty lady , I will look and not make any comments ,because I have a girl. I look and I think most if not all men do. Be secure ,love who you are , be happy someday you may regret the waste of time. I must admit that I can't deal with trying to get her to understand basic life. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Well, they have eyes and aren't dead. They shouldn't be being disrespectful and looking at them in front of you with their tongues hanging out but the old saying is still true when involved with someone and it goes for both sexes. You can look at the menu, you just cant eat. If you are with someone that does this let them know that you don't appreciate them doing it in front of you or sharing what they think sexually about another women.

Even though they are with someone, they still want to look and say things. Usually girls want to look too but just as long as they know who they are with and don't take it to far, it think it's okay. I mean you just can't expect someone to never look at someone in a sexual way, but they do now have boundaries.

Also men have high hormones; just because they have sex with another female that doesn't mean he doesn't love you it just that there is girls every were and men can not control themselves. It's is pretty understandable.

AnswerThey want something to masturbate to later. And looking at the relationship in a different light.

I think that all men look, but then I think women look is well, they're just better at making it less obvious where as men stand with their tongs hanging out.

I don't think that it means he loves you any less. It just means he lacks manners.

Answer 4

It is a genetic remnant left over from our days as herd animals. Most herd species have an ALPHA male which is dominant over the herd and tends to do the mating with the females of the herd. Our own inherant genetic need to be the alpha male subconsiously causes men to look and consider additions to his own herd to make the herd or family unit larger and stronger. Our intelligence level actually allows us to surpress and control these urges (in most cases anyways) This applies to women as well. In the female case it is comparing to find the strongest or most powerful alph male.

Answer 5

It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE....we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer...

Women and men are bombarded with unreal images of women everyday and everywhere. Men feel entitled to look and consume all these images and it is doing no good for women. We are constantly feeling insecure about ourselves because all of this objectivity is getting out of control. All the movies have at least one topless woman, women are used to sell everything.... Why do women have to just accept that men will look?....women want to look too...and recent studies have shown that women ARE JUST AS VISUAL and respond EQUALLY to sexual images as men, so those arguments are no longer valid. It is a matter of respect and women are no longer being respected.

Answer 6

Its normal, I guess its evolution at work but either way its nothing to be worried about.... After all it'd be weird if men looked at only and always at the woman he's with...

If something is bothering you then talk to him but other than that don't worry.

If a man quits looking at other women. Call a doctor. He is dead or dieing. It is ingrained in the very nature of most men. Those men that do not look at women, look at other men. It is simply what we do.

Answer 7

cause that's the way men are programmed. Nothing bad in this.

Overly jealous women take things too seriously. He's by your side remember? whoever he looks at does not matter. Can you honestly admit you have never gawked or looked at a cute guy walking by?

we are humans. forget it

You can start worrying if he does it excessively or too obvious or if he doesn't regard or respect you while you re with him in public or if he starts comparing you to other cute women that they re better than you

Answer 8

Men are not the only ones who look- women look also because it is human nature. Men identify love with sex. Perhaps you should spice things up more often. If that does not work and he is constantly looking at other women in front of you when you ask him to stop- then it is probably time to dump him because he is obviously a dog.

It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer.