Which is better Being single or being in a relationship?

Answer 1

It depends on the individual. Some men/women prefer to just date and not get into serious relationships for reasons of their own, but the norm is relationships are better because you are sharing your life with someone and the world can be one lonely place. However, one shouldn't go out hunting for a person to go with, but just let it happen naturally.

Again it depends on the person and at what stage of life you are at, people nowadays want to focus on careers and want to get married later possibly at 30, when you are single you are naturally more passionate about life, you want to meet new people the world is yours, you have a spark and energy to always look good in terms of diet and appearance, you always get a new challenge with the many potential partners you will meet not necessarily having to be sexually active with them again depends on the individual. Especially women you will have a chance to be independent and make your own decisions. However the downside is that at the end of the day you do not have that significant other to talk to, cuddle with, and know that you have that person's back no matter what.

Ok now lets talk about being in a relationship, you get the benefits of guaranteed sex anytime, you always want to know you are at the best point in your life in terms of a career or job because you want to impress your partner. You can have a lot of fun together as a couple planning parties, get togethers, double dating and it also makes you as an individual come across as serious to people as you are capable of being in a relationship. Now everything must be in moderation you can spend time together as a couple but you must balance your social life must have girl time/boy time and I must stress you have to trust each other for it to work. However the downside is that you may shut out the world, you may feel that you can not talk to the opposite sex as you are in a relationship so you may loose out on opportunities, you may give up big events or friends because your significant other can not come, you may get dependent on him/her and would not find fun in anything which does not involve them and the outside world could feel that they loose you because you could neglect them.

Again this is from the point of view for people from 13-30, please at some point ppl we all have to get married and settle down but before you get married you have to experience life and live it to the fullest.