What would you do if your 8 year old son insisted on trying on a pink satin nightshirt whilst you were out shopping?
dont let him
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What should you try if your 8-year-old son was diagnosed with ADD and you started him on 5mg of Ritalin but it did nothing?
Try alternative treatment first.. . \nI would first look into other possible solutions. My son (now 7 1/2) was diagnosed with ADHD a little over a year ago, after a few ba…d years of Preschool and Kindergarten. Not wanting to medicate him, I began researching alternative methods of treatment and have found that diet is a huge factor, as are supplements. He is still not perfect but has not been sent home or to the principal's office this year! (Yeah!) Start with removing all artificial colors, flavors and preservatives from his diet. From there you can look into possible food allergies. (Our son is allergic to dairy, wheat, soy, egg and a few other things - I never knew.) You can add magnesium, fish liver oil, and B6 and these should also help. Good luck, it is along haul and people will think you are crazy, but in our opinion it is worth trying these things first.
What would you do if you caught your 8 year old son playing outside in his sisters satin nightshirt during the day?
Answer . Make sure his shoes match the outfit.
Well, is it a fashion statement or a dare or joke. You would have to ask him why he wore it. If he said because he wanted to, I guess there could be worse things he can do, li…ke drugs or violence. Its only a piece of clothing so if it didnt bother him to do it, then it shouldn't bother you. I would let him know that he is a reflection of you and should think about the types of decisions he makes when out of the home.
What would you do if you caught your 8 year old son wearing nothing but his sisters favourite satin blouse around town?
Answer . I would ask him why he felt the need to do this and let him know that he is a reflection of his family and needs to act accordingly. Was he making a statement, tr…ying to fit in with his friends or be a jokester?
Would you let your 8 year old son go out with his friends wearing nothing but his favourite white satin button through back blouse with no skirt or any underwear on?
Answer . Well, there are at home clothes and there are ones to go out in, and he should know the difference--but you might still have to insist. But if he actually went out… dressed like this, he needs to come back in and change to clothing that is similar to everyone else. At 8, he should still be required to do as asked, following parental direction.
Your 8 year old son insists on going out with his friends wearing nothing but his sisters white satin button back blouse with no skirt or any underwear on what should you do if you caught him in town.?
Answer . He's 8 and is going through a phase, if you don's say anything to him he will eventually stop doing that. Don't make a huge fuss. I use to baby sit a little boy a…bout the same age who played with barbie's and loved the color pink. At first I would tell him no little boys don't play with barbie"s. The more I said no he continued, but after I stopped saying anything he stopped playing with barbies and is now playing with trucks, tractors, and other boy objects, and hates pink. So just don't say anything to him, he will stop.
What would you do if your 12 year old son insisted on going out with his friends wearing one of his sisters favourite navy blue satin Chinese style dress with no underwear on?
GOOD answer . you should 1st find out why he wants to and if he does burn the dress. CORRECT ANSWER:. That is of course silly. He should be wearing a bra and panties at l…east and maybe a half slip and stockings. If he is going to wear a dress then he needs panties for sure and not boxer shorts but soft silky nylon bikini panties and I would suggest a garter belt and stockings since most Chinese silk dresses have a slit up the side and that is such a sexy look. I hope he wears makeup and has long hair. My husband loves me to wear my Chinese dress with a garter belt and stockings and full cut French panties with lots of lace around the leg openings so you can see the lace at the top of the slit in the side of the dress. I sometimes make him wear the same thing (he has a larger set just like me and he is sexy in it).
What would you do if your 9yr old son insisted on wearing one of his sisters favourite white satin frilled neck plain front button through back blouses with no skirt or underwear on outside.?
Don't let him go outside, but it's normal for him to want to do that, he's experimenting. I know this sounds kinda rude but it's his business and choice, if it doesn't hurt hi…m then it's fine. Parents should learn that their children aren't their property but another living being with their own way of doing things. So don't make a mountain out of a mole hill. Actually you should take it lightly maybe take his picture with it on, it'll be one of those embarassing reminders when he's older that everyone will laugh at together. Or he's trying to find himself. Harmless, but seriously don't let him run out of the house half-nude. That's alittle to expressive. Hope it helps.
What would you do If you caught your 8 year old son in town wearing a white satin button through back blouse with no skirt or underwear on which meant everyone could see his penis?
Talk to him, to see if he was bullied into it. Or maybe it was a dare. Make sure he knows what he did. Make him know it is differant from chucking food down the toilet and oth…er stuff kids do. Only do this if you are angry thoug. If you are concerned you do really need to talk to him. It could be soemthing he saw someone else do. Maybe on tV or on the Internet. If that is the case you may need to let him know why they did it, although that depends on the reason. Maybe he needs to know why he shouldn't do that. He is maybe a bit young for him to want to see girls do the same thing, and still to young to know if he would want to see girls do the same thing
Would you let your 10 year old son go out wearing one of his sisters satin button through back blouses with no skirt or any underwear on to meet some of his friends who also do the same type of thing?
This sounds like a sex problem and not a gender problem. The heart of the question really lies in "with no skirt or underwear on": does this include pants yes or no? Are you s…aying he just wants to wear the top and nothing else girly? Are they doing anything they shouldn't be (beside the top)? Does he want to wear anything else or is this some sort of "group thing" (to be in a girls group one time, I had to drink some of one parents alcohol so I know about "wanting to be in the in crowed") All in all the reason behind it is more important than the behavior itself: is it a fad or a pattern. Does it have to be the sister's? Is he asking for his own? ....
What would you do if your 8 year old son insisted on going to school wearing the girls school uniform which consists of a white blouse and a grey pleated skirt?
Answer: if this is a serious request then you have to sit quietly with him and find out what he is thinking. It is not unknown for children to have gender identity problems. …It might be worth exploring the matter further with a counselor. Answer: Do not assume anything; whether it is something that needs therapy, something that won't go away or a passing phase. The best way to handle this is to ask him "Why?" And LISTEN! If He thinks they're neat or pretty or look like fun, then you can probably just discuss society's accepted roles and how clothing is a part of that. Most boys will be a little let down, but give up pretty quickly. IF he doesn't give up or he gives answers like "but I'm supposed to be wearing that, I'm a girl" or insists on wearing girls clothes only, DO NOT BERATE HIM, DO NOT BEAT HIM! Find a therapist that is knowledgeable in gender issues. A regular therapist (with no experience here) will be no help and often cause more damage than doing nothing. IF this is a large part of him ("I want to play with the girls, I don't want to do boys stuff, I am a girl") then trying to force him into a mold will make an angry and resentful child, possibly prone to addictive behaviors (for coping with externally applied stresses), problem behavior and even self-destructiveness. Many transgendered people say they knew from their first memory that something was wrong, that their body didn't match who they are (mind vs body.) Often it is remarked by parents and family that gender related behavioral differences could be seen as you as 4 years old. The "just say no" answer is incomplete and needs to be supplemented by the knowledge that sometimes the only answer is to accept what the child says is true for them (not that broccoli is bad for them, or they "need" to scream and yell, but expressing who they are is a very important part of becoming healthy adults.) Please, take your time, listen to your child and understand that he (or she) may feel in someways totally alien to you and this MAY or MAY NOT be changeable. A truly loving parent will care less about what they neighbors will thing, what my pastor thinks, what the guys at the bar think and will work towards what their child needs. Which is NOT to have the "sissy" beat out of him. Responce to Answer: I want to say that the advise given above is the best advice you can receive and I hope for both you and your child that you please listen to it. My best friend was born physically a girl but has always known he is different. He went through a lot of struggles and a family that was torn between denial and supportive. He is now taking the medical treatment to make his outsides fit him and is happier then I have ever seen. Please listen to your child and if he says that he is a girl then please be understanding and take the steps to understanding all that that means.
What would you do if you caught your 8 year old son wearing one of his sisters satin nightshirts with no underwear on underneath it in school?
It is not uncommon for young boys to wear their sister's clothing. However, you should communicate with your son and ask him why he feels he needs to wear his sister's clothin…g and more importantly why he does not wear underwear at school. If you are not satisfied with his answer then you should seek out a child psychologist. This may be a phase and if it is not then you need to know how to deal with it.
Just exactly the same as i would if i found my 8 yr old daughter in town wearing satin pyjamas! I'd tell him / her to make sure that whatever else they were wearing had better… be warm enough to be out of doors in!
How would you deal with your 8 year old son wearing one of his sisters favourite yellow satin nightshirts in the middle of town with no underwear on or skirt on around his waist?
I think you should suit him up like Rambo. Make him look real masculine. And make him wear 50 pairs of undies on top of each other with a sock in it.
How would you react if you caught your 11 year old son trying on a satin nightshirt and you could see that he'd no underwear on underneath it in a shop?
Well, I'd first discuss (quickly) that he needed to at least wear something under it while trying it on. After you send him back to put on at least underwear, I would have a s…hort discussion about the fact that if you don't buy that piece of clothing, it was very rude to do that - what person would want to buy it after that? When we get home (whether you or he buy it or not) I would have a discussion about shopping ettiquete and ask a few questions about why he was interested in that particular piece of clothing. No yelling, no crying, no blame, just a quiet question and answer period. He may be a crossdresser. He may not. Many men that are NOT crossdressers have a fetish for women's clothes; they're often soft or silky or slick to touch; something most men's clothes do not feel like. Best thing to do is talk and listen, go over rules for public behavior and let him know he is loved.
Yes, as i am a mother myself and im 29 years old and i have a 13 year old girl a 8 year old boy a 7 year old boy and a 2 year old boy and my daughter is perfectly capable of l…ooking after the youngest boy as the other to are capable of doing there own things but she fulling knows not to let anyone out or in the house unless she knows them.
Should you let your 12 year old son go out and play with his friends whilst wearing a satin nightshirt with nothing on underneath it?
No. I demand my children to wear underwear, at least when leaving the house.