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Is He Really Attracted? So you think that your husband is attracted to your friend? And you wonder whether this attraction can grow into a threat to your own relationship? On top of it, without you realizng it, your behavior towards your husband might have changed already? Did you ever consider asking him? This can be done with an easy questiion or statement. "You really like "So and so?" What is so difficult about this? I can tell you this: you are suspicious and you do not want to voice your suspicion. So you do not ask. This could be the beginning of the beaking up of your relationship. Isn't easier to ask in an inoffensive way than to let the matter stew in your head? Read more about relationships in the book recommendation #2 and #6 on my BIo Page.

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It happens, and doesn't mean you're doing something wrong by being attracted to his best friend. However, acting on that attraction and conveniently forgetting or disregarding the commitment you made to your husband would be wrong. That goes for having or trying to engage in an emotional affair or a physical affair with him.

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If you love your husband, don't let it progress any farther. Explain to the friend that it's impossible, and you would appreciate him cooling it, or you will have to talk about it with your husband. PS: This man is no longer your husband's best friend, although your husband does not know it yet.

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Stay the heck away from him. Don't try to be alone with him at any time. He is already taken and if he isn't YOU are. How hard is that? I would like to suggest you spend more time COMMUNICATING with your husband as to what the needs of each of you have and coming to common ground instead of searching out other men because that's not the answer to the problems you have. One thing to remember, if you find another man you just have another set of problems and lady, you're playing with fire.

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i don't know why i love with him best friend

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Unfall out of it!!

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nothing

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