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If you have a gut feeling something is going on, just keep your eyes open . Ssometimes the cheater loves to talk about the other even to their spouse. Signs can be coming home late, car seat in different place, he likes to argue over nothing, seems distant to you. These can all be signs that he would rather be at work with her. Is he in a hurry to go to work and have you noticed he makes sure he looks extra nice. This may sound silly but smell him when he comes home; he may have she smell on him.

Its understandable that you suspect your partner may be cheating on you but you can not wrongfully accuse them without proof. That could Jeopardize your relationship if something isn't going on. Like the other answer look for signs, does he act differently when he comes home than before? Does he seem less happy to interact with you? Is he hurrying to go to work? If all these signs are answered with: Yes, then there MAY be a problem. Talk to him. Start with: "Hows work? Anything new happening?" Then without giving yourself away start saying how special he is to you. How he is the only one you have ever loved etc. If he doesn't respond, responds less enthusiastically, then you may want to go to work with him one day, bring him lunch or something. Have a look whats going on and ask some people from his work.

Answer2: You don't state the reasons for your suspicions, but for your own peace of mind there are things you can do. Approach the matter with your mate in a very calm, dignified non confrontational manner. Be open, honest, upfront and talk about your suspicions and ask. Let your spouse know that you are not necessarily suspicious, but explain why you feel uneasy and suspect an affair. Talk it out and if your mate does or does not confess, you have options to stay or leave. (see 3/1/05 Watchtower article, Marriage Can Succeed in Today's World on Jehovah's Witnesses official website)

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17y ago

Confront is a tough word. You might want to express your feelings and let him know your fears, offering that if something is causing him to think of straying from the marriage, maybe you two should talk or find some help. Express this in love, not anger, and maybe he'll open up to you. As for whether you believe and can trust him is up to you.

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16y ago

If two coworkers is having a affair? I believe they should part ways and ust do their jobs,the way they should've.that way they can go on with their lives. This is a very touchy situation. Frankly if these coworkers are not directly bothering you it isn't any of your business because if you do say something think of the problems it will cause for you at the work place.

However, if one of these individuals is your friend(s) then you have to be careful you would become the bearer of bad news and it could end up wrecking your relationship(s) let alone all the others involved.

Maybe an anonymous way of letting one of the mates involved know as to not getting yourself directly involved. Be careful.

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15y ago

This might work.

Most people aren't good liars. Even I think I can lie my way out of anything, but I feel the obligation to be honest so this would nail me if i ever cheated.

Look at your husband's face and when he's looking back at you, ask him if he's cheating on you. If he hesitates at all, I'd say he's cheating.

Or you can simply catch him in a lie. If he's lying, he's most likely covering something up... but it could be a surprise for your birthday or something, so don't let me make you think too pessimistically.

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13y ago

SPENDS TIME WITH HIM... "TALKING(emotional affair).... also saying ...we are just friends.. she will become depressed when at home and less willing to be close with you.... she will find ways to be angry with you for NO reason... lie about staying late "at work".

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The only way you can tell if your spouse is been cheating on you is if he always comes home very late at night. Or he have this special meeting from work that he needs to attend. He or she might get a call unexpected. there are lots of ways that you, yourself can tell if your spouse is having an affair. just be careful and make sure if you are getting some evidence, it will back up the story..

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12y ago

Don't go around talking about it to your family and friends - instead, in a non-confrontational as possible way, let your spouse know that you know what's going on. They often can't tell you why, but it's often a mixture of working closely with another person and then the attraction comes in - along with a feeling that the spouse doesn't understand the stresses of their work - and then the fatal step.

If you, the injured party, have whined and cried about it to all your family and friends, how can you as a couple solve the problem and have everyone act like nothing has happened between the two you. Also, you have to start the whole process of rebuilding trust, and it can be hard if friends have been saying dump the bitch, or get rid of that creep - you can never trust him / her again.

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Try negotiating with her if that doesn't work, try calling a professional. If that dosen't work, it's time to get a divorce.

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Two married people having an affair?

The term for that is adultery (I suppose that's what you're asking).


Has anyone ever married the person they were having an affair with and regretted it and can you ever trust them?

The old saying "the head of the snake always turns around and bites you on the butt" is so true in life. If you have an affair it's wrong! Either you are married, he/she is or both of you are. Often people are unhappy in their marriage for various reasons and instead of trying to work it out they have an affair. Sometimes the two people having the affair feel they are deeply in love, but, if you really think of it, if both of you had an affair with each other how can each of you trust the other. It doesn't sound like you are very happy in your marriage so I don't know why you are worried if you can trust your spouse. It is true two people that had an affair together can get married and live a happy life. Unfortunately, it sounds as if you are having regrets. Be careful not to judge your mate and think he/she is having an affair .. those are old fears from the past. If you suspect this then keep a watchful eye out or even consider talking to your spouse to get the air cleared. Good luck Marcy


What is a man called when he has a relationship with a married woman?

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Is making out with another woman not your wife the start of his affair?

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What is two bridge rule if having an affair?

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I am having an affair with a married man how can I tell if he wants to end it with me?

He will stop calling you and/or start avoiding any visual contact. You need to get out of this situation - you are the third person in a relationship that is meant for two people. Nobody gets anything out of a love affair ... in the end, everybody loses.


If the married man is not ready to end the affair can the other woman do it?

Naturaly, It takes two to tango.


You are married and are having an affair with another married person?

Answer You really haven't asked a question, you've made a statement but if you want an opinion, I just hope for the two of you that no children are involved because if this gets out what will happen to the children because one of you couldn't keep a zipper closed and one of you didn't have the comon sense to keep your legs closed. Personally and this has nothing to do with Wiki Answers, but my personal opinion is that the two of you couldn't care less who either of you hurt as long as you get your jollies. What a shameful way for two adults to act. Shame on the both of you.


What is the name of the two people who are having an affair behind the kings back in the movie the king and I?

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How long can an affair between two married person last?

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How do you tell two coworkers are cheating?

It is none of your business.


Does Leann Rimes have a husband?

She did have an affair on her now ex-husband, Dean Sheremet and is currently married to the guy she had an affair with, Eddie Cibrian. Whether she is having an affair on Mr. Cibrian is currently unknown.