About all you can do is have a heart-to-heart with your girlfriend and tell her you don't like what she's up too. If she ignores you then you should tell her you don't want to see her right now until she gets her life turned around because she is putting you in a very awkward position. Cheating is cheap! It's cruel what she is doing. If she doesn't want to be with her husband and feels the need to be with someone else she should have the guts to at least be honest with her husband and separate for a period of time or file for divorce. What she is doing is having her cake and eating it too. If you stand by and watch this you are an enabler. Good friends stick together, but they are also honest with each other and sometimes we all need a good thump on the head. Have that talk (in private) with your girlfriend. Ask her why she feels the need to cheat on her husband. It doesn't really matter what excuse she gives it's just that ... an excuse, and she wants it all ... her husband and the new guy. I wouldn't tell her husband at this point in time because you'll end up the loser no matter which way you go. Good luck Marcy
Only "thinking" something is going on does not help for you confronting her or telling him. If you do anything with this you must be sure and be able to back it up as this will cause a lot of problems in the end for you, your friendship and them. Weigh your pros and cons before you take their private matter into your hands where really it has no bearing on you.
Are you interested in staying with a man who disregards you like that? If you are, politely tell him that you know what's going on and you'll let it continue but he should be honest with you from now on. If not, let him find out when he is served with the divorce papers! If children are involved, your situation is a whole lot trickier but you didn't mention any so I'm hoping that it's just you two involved in this.
You should tell your friend that he is cheating its best that she knows.
cheat on him with his best friend! then dump his gay self!
You don't; if you love your husband just stop cheating; if you don't love you husband, tell him you don't love him and file for a divorce.
You would not like it if your best friend cheated on you with your boyfriend so that is not a nice thing to do to your best friend. First, you should stop saying you are best friends with the girl when you are 'cheating" with her boyfriend. Best friends do not do that. Second, you should stop going out with her boyfriend. Third, you should tell the girl that the guy is cheating on her, even though you will need to tell her that it is with you. If he does it with you, there is a real good chance that he would cheat on her with someone else. Finally, both of you should dump the guy.
No she has been faithful through her courtship with Dave and her marriage. She don't know he is cheating on her with her best friend Lauren.
just come out and say it cause your friend is gonna notice that u are acting strang when her husband comes around ya
Your best friend is not your best friend at all because if she was she would never hurt you in this way. She did so because she can and some women are jealous of their friends if they are married. Also when your best friend is around both you and your husband she may have fallen in love with him. Both your best friend and husband are to blame, but mainly your husband as he could have formed the word 'no' at the very beginning and chose not too. You would be wise to get rid of your best friend and let your husband know you are not putting up with him cheating. Good friends simply would not do this to hurt another friend.
Stop cheating with her and forget the whole thing ever happened. You might want to bring it up in 20 years, or so, while you and your best friend are having beers and the girl is a distant memory.
No.
Most cheating husbands will deny they are cheating. Be calm and either get a friend to go with you when you feel he is out cheating and follow him or, hire a detective for three or four days to be sure he truly is cheating and then you can give him solid proof you need and you will have to decide if you want to live with a cheater.
I'm not sure as to what the cheating husband has to do with things, but yes. Definitely. The best idea for this situation is to cheat on the Girlfriend so that he can feel the same struugle of being cheated on so that it can bring you two closer in friendship.
you get divorced and lose a best friend or talk through it