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What should you do if you love your husband but recently found out he has cheated 4 times with 4 different girls?
Once you might forgive your husband for cheating, but 2 - 3 - 4 times ... kick him out! You deserve better! When you keep taking him back in he has absolutely no respect for you and certainly no respect for himself. He has it good! He knows he can have the fine life and still come wandering up the path to your open arms. Stop it! There are some great men out there, so get away from this guy and start having the good life you deserve. Ask yourself this, "Do I really love him, or do I just feel I need a man around and support from this man?" Life is grand out there and you don't need him to get it. Good luck Marcy
- Forgive him and understand that he is only being a man. The affairs were physical, no different than completing a marathon or mountain climbing. His emptional connection is real, and it is all that should matter.
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Should you give your boyfriend another chance if you recently found out he cheated on you but you still love him very much?
Answer You know what they say once a cheater always a cheater, but sometimes that is not true so it depends on you if you really love him and trust that he won't do it aga…in then you can, but I would not be too sure about it. You need to let him earn his trust back, don't just give him all you got. It could happen again and if it does then go find another one there are plenty of others out there. Keep your head up!! Answer It depends on the the relationship. How long and how much love has grown. They go hand in hand. If you feel that dumping the relationship will help you ease the pain go for it. If its true love you'll get back together, you'll realize what you did wasn't fixing the problem. Dump him. You don't need or deserve to put up with that nonsense. Once that line has been crossed, there is no going back for me; unless you have kids to consider you can do better. Yes it is going to hurt, but that is life and a risk we take onto ourselves when we get intimately involved with others. Just remember that being single can be tough at first but it can also be fun. Don't let this undeserving pest control another moment of your time, get back out there be the best and show him what he lost.
Should you stay with your boyfriend if you found out he cheated on you recently but he says he has already cut ties with the other woman and that he loves you and sees you getting married?
Should You Stay With Your Boyfriend If You Found Out He Was Cheating Even Though He Said He Has Stopped Seeing Her & Loves You and See In The Future The Two Of You Ma…rried? * Marriage is built on trust, honesty, communication, and respect of one another. He broke one of the golden rules TRUST! He's been cheating on you for quite sometime and didn't see fit to tell you. Women/men of any age should have zero tolerance for this behavior. Cheating on you is certainly not a good basis for a good marriage. He may have discussed marriage with you and got cold feet, but he should have been man enough to split-up and date other women and then, if he came back and realized he loved you and wanted to marry you the trust issue is still there. Don't believe him! YOU ARE IN CONTROL!!!! If you love him and aren't quite sure put the leash around his neck and give it a jerk every so often. That means go out on a few dates with him, but act nonchalant and date other guys. Make him work for your attention! * Tell him that if he ever wants to get married then he should set things straight with you so you know all about him.
if she cheats you should.... If you love her you will want to try to work it out. Talk to her find out why she cheated on you...when in the relationship..….was it with a person you know? Does she love you? If so and she is willing to comit herself only to you and you to her you can work it out. If you do forget about the past and move on....really move on like it never happened...never bring it up again..NEVER Find a good Church and seek God together that is the best advice I can give it has worked for me for 27yrs now Answer It depends on what you and her share. The more you share, like a house or children, the more complicated it gets. Perhaps something is missing in the relationship that made her seek out someone else. Or maybe you're dealing with a girl that doesn't have thesame feelings for you as you for her. Talk to her and find out why she did what she did.
if she is truthful with you now and is sincere in her apology, forgive.
yes, there could be big health risks if you did not, for you and him
Your boyfriend and you just broke up question though you recently found out he was cheating on you with 4 girls and you are not over him yet what do you do?
You GET OUT, seriously, this guy is not worth sitting around for. Get out, get over, and do NOT get back.
You should talk to her and get to know her alittle bit and tell her your feelings about her.
Maybe. Well also not that much. Trust him for the thing you think you can trust him for. You don`t need to trust him for everything , because he cheated. So trust hi…m for what you think you can trust him for! Maybe that will help. Answer 2: One time, can you really be sure just one time? Adultery is actually a sin against God. You need to think deeply about what adultery will do to your marriage mate and your life; consider the deceit, the hurt and broken trust.
If you found them under a momma bird in a nest, leave them alone. If not, toss them in the garbage - they're not going to hatch anyway.
How should one deal with a cheating wife who cheated her husband for 30 years but recently husband came to know all about her cheating?
Slow down - take a deep breath - find a quiet spot to think. Take a pad of paper and a pen and make two columns headed up as follows: (1) Good things about the last… 30 years (2) Bad things about the last 30 years If the good things far outweigh the bad things, then you have to determine if your wife has terminated her affair, and is sorry and wants to continue a relationship with you. You will have some decisions to make. If your wife is not sorry and is continuing the cheating then you have no alternative, but to terminate the relationship. This is really a tough one because if the past 30 years have been really good, do you want to throw it all away.
Look at it objectively. Social status, family,kids' future, love vs self respect,independence. see that your cheat husband doesn't pledge his money to the other woman or… marry her, if you plan to stick to him. get the financials clear.
Would you divorce your husband if this was his first time cheating on you and told you he did it 3 or 4 times?
Yes. Unless he is really committed and really wants to get help for his cheating, like through marriage counseling, then you should stay. But otherwise divorce him. Cuz he wil…l still continue to cheat.
If a husband told his wife he cheated 3 or 4 times on her when you know it was about 20 times should you tell his wife?
No, because if you tell the wife then she will go to the husband and tell him that you said that he cheated 20 times and then they both will come right back to you like you th…e bad person and they will curse you out and stuff like that . So , if a couple is having a problem then don't tell the wife that the husband cheated 20 times.
If you are not in love anymore and your husband cheated on you which caused your love to end what should you do?
bust the indows out his car!! ANSWER: It's only natural to loose our love especially if that person betrayed us. Talk to your husband, tell him how and what you feel. Show him… this big picture that he needs to see with his own two eyes. Try separation, so you can think and decide what you wanted to do with your life. Maybe it will help you both to have time out from each others, and you don't have to know how many times he see this other woman. If the separation help you, especially you that will be your answer. It's time to think about you love. I did the man that I married, gave my heart and soul, never had time for me and he blame me for having an affair, which he fell in love with the other woman. The day I found out that he didn't have a problem giving his heart to this married woman, it was the time for me to stop. If I can do it, I think you can also and you will feel light without heavy drama in your life.
Would a wife believe her husband if he said he only cheated 3 or 4 time but cheating is cheating no matter how many times?
A wife probably would be over protective on their marriage. She probably will believe the husband. But she can also have mixed feelings whether to believe you or not. It d…epends on the woman.