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You're in a tough situation and are learning a hard lesson about unprotected sex. You don't want a lecture, and I'm certainly not going to give you one. I sympathize with you because I know what it's like to make mistakes and to wish things were different. That said, I'd like to offer you some hope. First of all, this pregnancy won't last forever. It may feel like you're staring down a vast, dark tunnel with no light in sight, but it isn't so. You still have a future and you still have the opportunity for happiness and contentment. Have you talked to a supportive adult? It's very important to find an adult who will be by your side, no matter what decision you make. If you feel you are capable of raising this baby, you will no doubt need help in doing it. If you feel you cannot raise this baby, there are options available for you. Some people may advise abortion. Some may advise adoption (like me). Whatever you do, make sure that it's the right thing for both you and your unborn baby. If you don't know what that is, get involved in a support group for pregnant teens or teen moms and learn about their experiences. Ask their advice. You are not alone in your predicament. Many girls are there now and many have already been there. Hang in there. Life is not over!
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∙ 15y ago
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∙ 12y agoTELL YOUR PARENTS!
Don't be scared. There have been cases of 12 year olds and 11 year olds have been pregnant. Best thing to do is tell your parents. Whether in a form of speaking verbally, or through a letter, or whatever. Just tell them, and hope they give you the support that you need.
There's adoption, abortion, and keeping the kid.
It's your choice.
If you don't wanna give birth, abortion.
If you wanna give birth, but you don't wanna keep the kid, adoption.
If you want to give birth AND keep the kid,
It's not your boyfriend's choice, parents choice, best friend's choice.
It's yours.
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∙ 14y agoYou should be a great deal more sensible, so should your parents , first you must remember you are only 13 years old, your periods have just started and you are a child so keeping the baby is not at all wise. Your parents should be more understanding children will make big mistakes , so throwing you out of the house has not solved anything. Contact the agencies that help and support girls like you and do it fast.
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∙ 12y agoThat is a tough one. I wouldn't abort at all....the best decision in my opinion would be adoption. At 13 you are way to young to have a baby, got whole life ahead of you.
tell you parents, encourage them to take you to a medical doctor immediately, Immediately go to a trusted adult like your mom, school counselor, etc. and find out your options and start working toward a solution. A doctor visit is definitely in order to find out how you are doing medically. Avoid having further sex without contraception just in case it is a false alarm.
If you haven't told your mom, TELL HER....she can help, and DON'T get an abortion: it's killing a life. If you haven't told your mom you really should.....she would get mad, any mother would.....but she should help you through it.
Tell your parents and see a doctor to make sure you really are pregnant and how far along. The doctor will give you the same options all women have; keep it, adoption or abortion. The only one who can and is allowed to decide is you.
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∙ 12y agohonest answer for you is in abortion or adoption but no 13 year old should be thinking about sex at all no matter how much she loves her boyfriend. or to talk to your mom about keeping it but its going to be hard because if you guys are both under 16 you guys can not get a job so money is going to be hard , you not going to want your mom or dad taking care of the kid all the time but you have to be responsible about what you guys both decide on doing.
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∙ 16y agoYou need to tell an adult that you trust, a teacher, a parent , and let them help you find the answers tht you need
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∙ 16y agoLet the child live and after giving birth, go to school once again, and be a responsible mom to your kid.
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Can a 13 year old get pregnant with out any?
A thirteen year old girl can get pregnant if she has started ovulating and has unprotected sex.
Can a girl who is thirteen get pregnant be herself?
yes a girl can it is call a Inuits pregnancy
What do you do if you want to get pregnant but Im only thirteen?
Wait five years and find a husband.
If you are thirteen and pregnant when will it show?
when your tummy becimes bigger and after nine months you're ready for delivery...
How early you find out if you are PREGNANT?
Well... I will tell you I know a thirteen year old who found out he was PREGNAT!
What are symptoms of being thirteen weeks pregnant?
Check the links under the related links section.
Can you get pregent at 13?
If by thirteen, you've started your period, then yes. But, you can get pregnant before you start, but that very rarely happens.
How do you you make your moshi monster pregnant?
Errrm.... I don't think you actually can. acturly you can my friend made my other friends monster pregnant by making it have sex she hade thirteen monsters.
How Many Women has Gabby Agbonlahor got pregnant?
Twelve? Thirteen if you include the thirteenth girl, but only 12 if you exclude her.
Could a eighteen year old go to jail for getting a thirteen year old pregnant?
Yes. if you are 18 you can be prosecuted.
Is it possible to be pregnant for twelve to thirteen months and what would be the cause?
i suppose it could be possible that your baby doesn't want to come out yet.
Can a 13 year girl get pregnant by a 13 year old girl?
No, they cannot because girls cannot get each other pregnant. If you are asking whether a 13 year old can get pregnant by a thirteen year old boy, then the answer is 'yes'. If he is producing sperm and she is producing eggs and they have sex, it is possible for her to get pregnant.
