A psycologist
First your nephew should see a film "Anger Management". What about anger management classes that you can find some information there: angermanagement.net/ or something more like www.angermanagementgroups.com/
It means he has anger management problems, is over protective and suffers from jealousy.He needs to see a therapist, his doctor will recommend someone suitable.
See your doctor first; if necessary he will refer you to a pain management specialist.
Ask the person in charge or the anger management class how your husband is doing. When he/she feels your husband is dealing with his anger well, go back home and see if your husband is ok. If he is not, and was only pretending, a divorce is truly the best option
You should see a dermatologist
take a deep breath and think about what ur going to say or do. if it is severe, or gets out of hand, you should see a professional (therapyst, anger management classes ect.)
Certified Anger Management can easily charge each participant $25 per person per session/hour. If you have 10 persons in a group you are earning $250 per hour. It is easy to see how fast this can add up. I provide Anger Management Coaching for "disruptive physicians" at a cost of $275 per hour.
You give a lot of black men in the poo hole and you cant see them anymore
You should see a therapist who specializes in anger management. Cognitive behavior therapy is good at helping you break bad thinking habits and changing unhealthy response patterns. You will need to work on ways to defuse the anger ahead of time and ways to express anger in a more healthy manner.
See a local doctor
Urologist
Cancerologist