I've been searching for the same all over!! its really a great song
I just found it on YouTube, and apparently its an unreleased song (or loop...)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcOkG_JNpjg
During the moments where you see Stan all heartbroken, they play Don't Know What You've Got (Till It's Gone) by Cinderella and All Out Of Love by Air Supply. They also have play YMCA by Village People, Shock the Monkey by Peter Gabriel, and Living in America by James Brown.
Break out
The songs played are "Surfin' Beach Waves" and "The Mustle Man".
You can find the list of songs at www.vampire-diaries.net in the 'Wiki' section.
The song that played in Naruto episode 217 about halfway in the episode is Closer by Joe Inoue.
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Woods by Bon Iver
The songs that are played in the episode "He's the One" are:"He's the One" and"Don't Wanna Be Torn"
Bring on the wonder By Susan Enan
Don Felder - Heavy Metal (Take a Ride)
A very good song indeed
Pete Yorn "Lose You" :D
Good Ol' Fashion Nightmare by Matt & Kim