Where do you find love?

Answer 1

I spoke on this with a Rabbi once, and he presented some interesting insights.

First off, for those in their younger years, love is not an emotion as much as it's a desire.

The human brain does not yet have the conceptual ability to understand and truly feel love until well into the 20s. Prior to that time, what you are feeling is the desires, wants, and needs of a youth. It's the same desires that drove that overwhelming need to have that latest toy. Then later, the new boy or girl, your first driver's license, and your first car.

The difference is, as an adolescent, hormonal changes get thrown into the mix. Also added in is that magical date on the calendar when you become a LEGAL adult. But, you're not yet a physical or emotional adult, and as such, what a teen feels is desire, and lust, but not love.

Even an adult cannot feel this, for love is not instantaneous.

It's a seed that grows over time, when two people commit to each other the goal of becoming one person. A type of symbiotic relationship. From him the woman draws strength and logic. From her, the man draws emotion and compassion. This is not something that happens overnight, or even in a few months. It can take years, provided the right beginnings are met.

There is clear statistical evidence that the couples who live together, and/or get married prior to age 24 make up 85% of all breakups and divorces. This is the point when a female reaches full maturity and is ready ti truly understand what love is. In actuality, she will be more in love with her children, before she is truly in love with their father. The woman is the anchor to the ship that is man.

The symbiotic relationship even extends beyond the emotional needs. The exchange of bodily fluids during intercourse delivers chemicals that both the male and female body needs. In males, it affects their immune system. In females, it affects the strength of the uterus, improving the ability to carry a baby. Found that one out just the other day on the Discovery Health Channel. As such, man and woman are meant to be together. But, not multiple men and women, as their bodies are adapting to each other. Multiple partners disrupts this in that the genetic makeup of the chemicals contained within semen and vaginal fluids are specific to the individual. Multiple partners has the body trying to adapt to every new contribution.

All this together is what LOVE is. It's when your heart and your spouse's heart is one. It's when your bodies have adapted to become one. It's when you can stand as one against all challengers. THAT IS LOVE!

Answer 2

well istly have a nice gOOD MORNING............DEAR.........

YOU HAVE ASKED ABOUT TRUE LOVE.......... well true is not a sentence of I LOVE YOU...

jab bhi aap kisi ko i love you bolte hoo tho iska meaning ye nahi ki aapka i love ...or aapke lover bhi i love you bolkar is baat ka ehaas karwaye ki ha wo bhi aapko payar karta hai..

sirf i love ypou bolnae se he true love nahi hoo jata hai..

in first meeting u have to say her / him i love you and in returns u have also got the same response by her / him.

par jab aapki life marrige settlement k time period me aati hai tho dono me se koi bhi ek inkaar kar deta hai .....ki...family or parents nahi maan rahe hai..

True love wo hota hai ...jase aap aapne lover 1st sight par i love you bolte hoo aur wo bhi aapko bolta hai.. par us time par dono he yer nahi soochate ki aage kya hoga ... par phir bhi dono saath saath chale ka wada karte hai... aur jab aap ye mahsus karte hoo ki....haa....har....pal...uska..saath mere saath hai... wo pal...ap ko ...ye ehasaas karwata hai .. ki haa. aapka payar sacha ..hai...aur kisi bhi tarha ki koi... galatfehmi nahi..rah jati.....wo he pal...sache payar ka..pal...hai..

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Answer 3

You know from your own experience that love is powerful. It's something we all want.

Consider a survey that asked "would you marry somebody who had everything you looked for in a partner, but whom you were not in love with?" More than 90% of woman and 86% of men said "no"!

But just what is love?

There are as many different perceptions and definitions of love as there are people, as we each have different experiences of what it is. This is one reason why it's so hard to find - you, and any potential partner, have to be able to bridge the gaps in expectations.

Up until recently most people believed love was about chemistry and the interaction of molecules and hormones within you. Chemicals forced you to act in certain ways and create what you perceived as love. But we all know that when you text or speak to your lover on the phone those molecules don't cross space and trigger a chemical reaction. We now know there's something more powerful involved.

Science now shows that those chemicals are set in motion by electromagnetic signaling, or what you might simply think of energy.

When you're 'in love' your energies - such as those measured by your brain and heart waves - as well as those chemicals, emotions, thoughts and actions are focused and flowing together in one direction. This is a little like a laser, which brings together and amplifies waves of light energy to make a powerful and illuminating beam that's stronger than the individual light waves on their own.

So love is, ultimately, energy.

Once you understand the power of love you can then do something about it. There's more detail - and a free e-book - at http://www.findtruelovebook.com

Answer 4

You don't just find love, love comes to you and when your in love you just know it.