Mormons are Christians, and as such, have funerals much like other religions. The main difference is that Latter Day Saints believe in forever families that last for eternity. Their emphasis is geared to a celebration of the deceased's life, their passing into the spirit world where they will experience paradise and a time free of sadness, with an eventual reunion with their family. Services are usually held at the member's ward meeting house, with their congregation in attendance. The deceased is usually buried in their white temple clothes (if they held a recommend). The Relief Society generally provides some flowers, music, incl. a piano or organ player, a chorus director and spiritually uplifting music. The ward Bishop, friends and family will all says a few words. After everyone goes to the cemetary, the ward often provides a full wake/meal for everyone as a tribute and help to the affected family (at no charge).
At church/ a funeral
yes white lilys for funeral because it is peace sign
Mormon funerals tend to be fairly happy occassions, where the deceased is remembered by those who loved him or her. Members of the deceased's church community give talks and provide music for the program. Other than that, a Mormon funeral is not notably different from funerals associated with any other Christian denomination.
black
No. It is disrespectful and not the place to wear them. A funeral is like church where you wear an appropriate outfit.
One can purchase a visitors book online that will be appropriate for a funeral at a number of websites. Among these is the auction website eBay and the retailer Amazon.
you can if you want but you don't have to, as they have already or will charge for their services.
"The idiom 'that just kills' is hardly appropriate at a funeral."
It is now considered appropriate to wear any type of business or business casual clothing and shoes to a funeral. Although the custom used to be that you had to wear black, it is no longer considered to be your only option.
If the burial is private in Switzerland it considered proper etiquette to publish the obituary after the funeral. If the burial is to be made public, the proper etiquette is to publish an obituary a few days before the funeral.
The church makes no charge for conducting a funeral service. If say the Relief Society are asked to supply the flowers or perhaps a meal after the internment then a nominal fee may be asked for to cover the cost. Usually when it is an all Mormon service all is usually donated.
The would be an appropriate gift at a wedding or a funeral. Kind of ironic if you think about it. The beginning of a new life and the end of a life.