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They will beg for you to come back, and when you do, they will be "nice" for a few weeks and then everything will start back up. Once you really put your foot down, they will move on and get someone to replace you. Most likely someone with a low self esteem.
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∙ 16y agoHighly narcissistic people usually have one of two responses to being left. Both are aimed at protecting the narcissist's inflated view of themselves. In either case the narcissist does not really mourn the loss of the one who leaves but only the inconvenience of doing without the things they gave him or her.
1. They devalue the person leaving as though they were worthless and inferior. They may cut off all contact as though the other ceases to exist. This way they can deny that the other was ever importance to them and believe that they are better off without them.
2. They want revenge for being abandoned. These narcissists might stalk, harass, assault or otherwise make the life of their abandoner a misery. They will make a divorce as traumatic as possible for example.See the following link on this subject:
www.ultimate-self.com/the-narcissist's-revenge/
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∙ 15y agoGive yourself time to look at the situation as it all happens really quickly you are on a rollarcaster ride from start to end and it doesnt stop when they leave you not straight away but it does get better as you realise that they are the ones with the problem and you was just unfortunate to be there main target.i did alot of research into Narcissism and it gave me alot of answers it really helped me go through the stages and recover.
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∙ 12y agoNO, it's your loss if you leave the beautiful wonderful them! My late mother was a narcissist and did not think about anybody except herself. Was a horrible parent, and even worse grandparent.
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∙ 12y agoIf you don't respond then they won't respond....not responding on your part could mean indifference to them and will show that by not responding your not being guided by fear, fear perhaps of the consequences if indeed u do not respond and/or do wot they say. Th most important thing is for them t feel in control, they wud give up money, materialistic stuff..a relationship before the illusion of control. If u don't respond it will look like your no longer under their control, so they have no use for you anymore.
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∙ 14y agoStalking, trying to reel you back in.
NO CONTACT
www.vainencounters.com
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∙ 10y agoWhy on earth would you leave me? I am awesome
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∙ 13y agothey wont care
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How do you make marriage work with a narcissist?
Leave, then empty the bank.
What will Narcissist boyfriend do if you cheat on him because of neglect?
leave and/or abuse you and blame you.
What do you tell people when you leave a narcissist?
That it didn't work out. The rest is none of their business.
Is it easier to manipulate a narcissist by fighting back or feeding there ego?
neither - LEAVE! www.vainencounters.com
Is it worth staying with a narcissist?
No, get out if it is safe to leave!
Will a narcissist leave a woman if she is too strong?
Sometimes not at first because a narcissist likes drama and likes to be around special people in order to feel special vicariously. But if and when she becomes too much for him to deal with he will leave. A narcissist really needs submissive women. Women they can dominate and control and get "Narcissistic supply" from....at heart they are insecure cowards!
Is it possible to have a friendship with a narcissist?
It can be possible to be friends with a narcissist but do not expect much from this person. Also expect the friendship not to be very fufilling and mostly one sided (on your part) The one thing that does help is that you already know that he/she is a narcissist so you will understand why they do or say most things. I say give it a shot but do not expect too much like a friendship where that person will always be there for you no matter what because that just will not happen. I know this from experience. GOODLUCK!
What if your narcissist ex is considering seminary again Should you expose him?
Tell him to go and leave you alone.
If you leave your narcissist boyfriend for another man will he leave you alone?
Possibly, however men can be jerks and who knows, if you don't want to be with him, leave him and just try to forget he ever existed.
What if you have been his meal ticket what are the chances that the narcissist will leave you alone?
Not good. 2 words for you: RESTRAINING ORDER.
Should narcissists leave their families?
On the contrary, most families leave the narcissist.
Why is your ex narcissist partner telling lies about you?
It is what they do. Why do flies fly? That is what you would expect them to do. They are very self centered. That is why you don't get involved with people like that.
