What do you do when your in love with your husband and your also in love with another man and he is in love with me. My husband works all the time and the other man likes to do what I like to do.?

Answer 1

In this day and time be glad your husband has a job and works his butt off to support the family. Yes,he maybe away alot but most men show their love this way. Talk to him honestly and tell him you are feeling neglected and unloved. Commicate with him and work hard to try and save your marriage to this man. Does he abuse you? Or is it just that he is never home? He does have some days off doesn't he,if so ask for him to at least spent one day with you each week and talk some everyday to each other. Forget this other man,he is just there because you are bored and lonesome with out the husband you really love,you just think you love the other man because he is showing you attention and affection that you are craving right now. In the long run would you leave your husband for this man,its not always a bed of roses on the other side. What can this other man give you besides a little time and sex? After being married for years we get use to the same old routine and yes we do take advantage of our spouses,maybe your husband doesn't realize your unhappy,maybe he is too but you don't know it. Communicate is the best cure for this.