How would it happen that you would have no knowledge of this impending divorce? You have to be served with papers, for starters. That should be a clue. Every effort has to be made to notify you of the divorce action before it can be continued without you. Once you have been served, you have knowledge. If you ignored this, never answered the requests for court appearance, etc., in some states it means the divorce is granted to the petitioner by default. Unless you are in "hiding" so that no one can contact you (and you'll eventually need to explain that one), it is pretty hard for a divorce to go through with no input from you.
You can seek advice from a divorce attorney. In a divorce, each party has to be served or notified by the other part of impending action. If you were not notified, you may have legal recourse.
Of course you can!
Yes, but difficult. see link
An attorney is not usually needed for an uncontested divorce. In most jurisdictions a person can file for an uncontested divorce without an attorney or having any legal experience. Your local Courthouse should have further information on the forms required.
It is not possible of obtain a divorce without the knowledge of any one of the couples.
It's actually very easy to file for divorce without a lawyer. You simply need to go to your County Court, and fill out divorce forms.
The grantor can revoke a power of attorney. The do need to notify you of the revocation.
Yes. But if you have property and children you should hire a good attorney.
There is no requirement that an attorney sign a contract
Contact the police and an attorney.
no he can not eventually he has to get the papers sooner or later.
A will can't make you a power of attorney. There is no point in making someone a power of attorney if you don't tell them about it. And a power of attorney expires on the death of the grantor.