When they are 18yo. And the example below can work if your parents can afford 3 different homes incl overnight stay. Most people would refuse sharing an apartment after divorce though. People want to be able to move on and this is also important for the child to do.
As an alternative, why not ask for Joint Physical Custody of your parents?
Tell them that you want to remain in a home, and each of them there for three weeks, than switch. Once night a week, the parent not in residence takes you out to dinner or some other activity. While in the home, the resident parent does not date, or have overnight guests, other than relatives.
On the off weeks, the parent rents a room, stays with relatives, their friends, or they can split the cost of a two bedroom apartment, with each having their own bedroom.
The priority here is you not having your life disrupted by their choice not to be together. Their lives are equally disrupted and they split the cost of your home.
The support amounts each parent are obligated to provide for your care can go into a TRUST FUND. From the trust fund, expenses for the home and your standard expenses, are paid.
All this follows in accordance with Federal Laws dating back 100 years as regards Trust Funds that have been established for guardians to draw from when parents have been killed in an accident. Also in cases involving child stars (The Coogan Act-1939) where the law is designed to prevent their parents from spending the money for their own uses.
Any money left in the account would collect interest and be available for emergencies, or special expenses, such as part of the cost of a car, or a college education.
This is called Bird Nest Custody. YOU STAY IN THE NEST THE BIRDS TAKE TURNS BEING THERE.
See links belowsee links below
At the age of 12
In West Virginia, a child can decide which parent they want to live with when they are 18.
If a grandparent has applied for guardianship of minor grandchildren because parents are deceased, can the children state that they don't want to live with the grandparent even though that would be in the childrens best interest
see link
if you want
No, as a minor you are not allowed to choose who to live with. That is up to the parents.
You have to be 18yo.
They have to be 18yo.
That will be for him and his partner to decide in private.
You have to be 18.
They have to be 18.
No, that is up to your parents.
They have to be 18yo.