What are some signs a cheating spouse feels guilty?

Answer 1

I would say that sex is the most obvious, suddenly your partner does not want sex or pushes your hand away or tries to wriggle away from you and gives ridiculous excuses as to why they don't want sex, such as" I've just showered; I just did my hair, or anything at all to avoid sex with you. Another is they refuse to spend a lot of time alone with you, my suspicions were up when my boyfriend started making ridiculous excuses not to stay the night at my house anymore. Letting you down or dropping you for "friends" at the last minute wanting "space" and putting their friends before you all the time. suddenly start doing their hair or making an effort to look done up when they didn't before. Or getting dressed up to go to somewhere casual with their friend/s i took this to mean that hes obviously trying to impress other women. After all if he and his friend were only going to a quiet bar on a Saturday afternoon why would he need a best shirt on and his hair all done up? your gut instinct will tell you when somethings up. If you have suspicions or your boyfriend acts different he many not be cheating on you but if he is acting odd toward you then he font give a damn about you anyways and you can do better

Answer 2

Affairs aren't rightIf they have a heart and a concious they should feel guilty about their affair. If not, they're not worth being let a second chance.

B:

Maybe there's a few husband that do, but the reality is they don't. Married man that end up with the affairs will tell you that it makes them feel good. The attention that the other woman gives him makes him feel special. While their having the affair they do not think about others except themselves. But if he got caught the drama will start, the spouse will start saying he was sorry for hurting the wife and the kids. The spouse will say that he regret what he did, but this are all lies why he got caught and he can't see the other woman anymore.

Man or woman that have the affair will never have the guilt while they are getting what they want. If they get caught, all the excuse will comes out so we will believe them. No fun intended to those who are good spouse.

Answer 3

if your husband or boyfriend tends to go out a lot and come back late.

if he smells of perfume and hesitates to look you in the eye and tells you

where he has been all these hours. Or just hard to explain where he has been and could lead to mumbling or just walking away. Can cause ill tempered attitudes like per say angry, quiet, sad etc.

Answer 4

1. He's broke because all of his cash is going to the other woman.
2. He's been putting you down lately or picking fights with you (this is a tactic they use to ease their guilt).
3. They get defensive if you question where they've been or ask about females that he has been spending time with.
4. The first thing he does when he gets home is take a shower.
5. He has all of a sudden been meticulous with keeping his physical appearance up.
6. He doesn't have a lot of time for you, and he may have told you he's "working late" on many occasions.
7. He goes out at night, a lot. He may use the out with "buddies" excuse. When he's out, his phone is off, and goes straight to voice mail.
8. He's been getting a lot of calls/texts lately. He may act like he's in a rush to get off the phone.
9. He puts a password on his phone.
10. He hasn't put a password on his phone and you notice a lot of unknown numbers. (Beware, men will list their other women as businesses or names of men so you won't second-guess the calls).
11. Your sex life is non-existent
12. He asks you where you are all of the time. You think he's being concerned. The reality is... he's making sure he won't get caught in the act.

Different ANSWER:

All of the above is true, but that's hardly the case. You will never know if your spouse is having an affair except for some few hint that he do. You know that he will always comes home to you, it might be later at night but still he will come home. All you know is he is working hard and maybe doing some overtime. But what you need to know are this sign;

1- he takes a shower twice a day, one morning and one in the evening as soon as he

gets home.

2- Or maybe when your husband gets home he look fresh like he just had a shower.

which he did so you will not smell the scent of his mistress or even the smell

of making love to someone

3- You will never find his cell phone laying around the house because he kept it

where you can't find it and you will never hear it ring.

4- if he hardly dress up going to work, and suddenly he always look good just to

go to work, that's also a sign.

I could tell you more but I think this is enough to help you. I said this because everything I wrote here was my ex behavior when I didn't know that he was having an affair.

Answer 5

Sign of a cheating spouse as follows and not in order;

1- he/she rather pay bills, specially the credit card

2- going to work early but never did before

3- always taking a shower in the morning and at night as soon as she/he get home.

4- she/he always pay the cell phone without showing the statement

5- always stay in his/her office at home till late hours.

6- you never see his/her own cell phone laying around the house and you never hear it

ring.

7- always dress up going to work wearing cologne or perfume

8- making excuses that she/he needs to go back in the office

9- having his/her own toiletries inside her/his briefcase

10- she/he stop making conversation to you,except whats going on with the children

or plain basic day to day life

11- he/she say you are paranoid if you suspect them

12- he/she make a habit of never identifying their whereabouts

13- he/she not want to let you do their washing

14- he/she no longer enjoy intercourse

15- he/she has new jewelry

16- he/she never talks about long term or future with you

17- she/he mentions doing things that you were not part of

Answer 6

From experience, my ex-boyfriend would act overly affectionate towards me. Constantly telling me that he loves me, kissing me, holding me, touching me. Always telling me how much I mean to him. When I would confront him on the topic of cheating or when I actually started to claw my way through evidence he would tell me that I was all wrong and that he loved me and I got fed a whole bunch of excuses that I chose to accept at the time.

Looking back I realize it wasn't the best idea I could have had but for sure my ex would just be more affectionate and showing that he actually cared about me more verbally than sexual as it had always been.

ANSWER:

Most married men can show something that us wives might, (not sure ) noticed. But if you want to know how a man could act or show if he feels guilty, your the one that can only tell because you know your husband. Mostly when they are doing their thing behind your back or our back, there's no such things as feeling guilty not bad. As soon as he is with this other woman, if he really feels guilty, he might say that he can't do it because of you, his wife. But with all the books and articles and from my own experience, there's no such things as feeling guilty. They might feel awkward during the first time of intercourse, but for them not to feel guilty or bad the only way they can solve it, is by having another intercourse with the woman he is having the affair with. so please try not to over look to what he is trying to do or maybe say..

Answer 7

I don't think we can call it a "symptoms" let's call it a sign because it is a sign or warning or change of behaviour. You are the only one that can tell if your wife or husband is having an affair. just pay attention to the body language, and if your husband or wife acts a little different, then it's time for you to come forward and ask. I'm not sure if the cheating is been going on but if you think something is going on, you need to start talking before it gets worst.