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I married my husband 8 months ago. He is 55 and I am 35. I didn't know he was a narcissists until 2 weeks ago. He had been single for 20 years prior to me and I just thought that he had bad habits that would change with time and effort. He also has a big ego but I found his confidence sexy and humorous, I didn't think he took himself seriously. Admittely, he has changed for me a lot already. However, now that I know about the Narcissism, I am very concerned. I found out that lying is a key charactereristic and so is projecting blame. He tried to plot other people against me to get back at me for catching his lies. I don't know what the future has in store. Everything he has told me in the past about his ex-wife and life, may not be true. Nonetheless, I love him and we are already married. If I had to do it all over again, I'd think twice. Fortuneately, he is very wealthy so I can hire help with around the house that I don't get from him. Because we have a prenuptial that allots me money for each year of marriage, I can afford to give our marriage several years to see if he changes without worrying about where I will be financially if it doesn't work out. In general, he treats me well but is very self-absorbed and does very embarrasing things. But I have my daughter's company, am very independent and don't let him get away with things. We're going to start counseling. My suggestion is to make sure you go through the pros and cons and make sure you are protected against the worst case scenario.
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Why is narcissist happy to be seen with older bigger women?
Because older person will enhance narcissist's youth and bigger person will enhance nacssist's slimness.
What does it mean to marry older?
to marry someone older than you
What should you do if your boyfriend asked you to marry him?
say not right now and wait to u 2 get older
Should you marry someone who loves you when im older?
I think age is only a number. Marry for love and never mind anybody elses opinion.
When to marry when to have children how many children to have?
you should marry at 22 or older have kids a year or two after and have 3 or less kids depending on where you live and how much room it has
What to do if your girlfriend lives in another country and you want to marry when your older?
When you get older, you can consider moving to your girlfriend's country, or she can move to yours. You should live in the country that has the most opportunities.
If you marry an older girl Is that biologycally harmful for us?
No. For a man to marry a woman up to about 10-15 years older than he is, is practically ideal.
Was John Morton wealthy or poor?
He was poor when he was younger and then rich when he was older.
In which states are you allowed to marry an older women?
ewwsville
Can a older woman marry a younger man?
Yes.
Older sister tries to marry her younger sister husband's son which is from the man's previous marriage. issit legal for the older sis to marry her younger sis's stepson?
Some countrys have strange laws regarding this sort of relationship However as there is no blood relationship there should be no problem in most places.
Which movie is about the accidental death of the older son of a wealthy family?
Ordinary People
