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Should you confront the woman your husband cheated on you with?
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∙ 14y ago
If you confront him, what do you think he will say? He isn't really going to admit it and get in trouble and probably end his marriage is he? Not very likely.
You should get evidence first. People who don't want to know the truth-ask their spouse. Why? Because it is almost certain that he/she will assure you, in every way way can, that they are not cheating and life will continue as normal.
If you REALLY want to know-You find out how!
Also, if you confront him. How will you know if they are lying? Do you really know how to tell when someone is lying? Did you know (this one is almost common knowledge) that liars will often look directly in your eyes whilst lying?
If you ask a suspected cheating lying spouse whether they are cheating on you to you, and expect honesty from them. You probably don't want to hear the truth.
Why do you think he's cheating? In my experience, when there's smoke, there's usually a fire about to break out. By the way.in response to "is it cheating if the girl is an ex-prostitute"? Yes! Cheating is cheating no matter who it is!
Rather than 'Confront' I'd recomend using the word converse. To confront him means that he is already guilty and the conversation will be one sided. He will get backed into a corner, with little room to escape. If the shoe was on the other foot, Is this how you would want him to deal with you? You don't win by putting people down, you win by being able to resolve an issue of the past. That's how you can move forward. You cannot change history, why would you want to constantly have to deal with it?
I am in a situation now where my husband of 2.5 yrs may be cheating. I am going to do my research..... I am checking phone records going back at least 6 months, I am verifing these numbers via the internet. I will call these women and get answers, and checking his where abouts without him knowing. Then when I feel I am satisfied I will present my evidence; at that point he can tell the truth or this marriage is over. Getting answers will take time, but I am willing to do it right. By the way men are liars. so DO NOT believe anything they tell you. FIND things out on your own!
Would you charge a criminal without sufficient evidence to obtain a conviction and rely on their integrity to be forthcoming with the truth when challenged on the suspicion of having committed an offence?
Obtain the EVIDENCE you need to satisfy yourself of infidelity -- and save yourself listening to endless excuses, lies and denials.
I would tell him how she/you feel. And tell him why you feel that way. But they say, if you suspect its going on, usually it is. Im sorry.
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∙ 6y ago
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∙ 14y agoEventually. Confront your wife first.
The right thing to do is if the guy doesn't know "accidently" drop yal's wedding picture somewhere where you know he'll see it.
You should be confronting your wife, first.
A confrontation with the other man will accomplish nothing ... after all it's not totally 100% his fault for the affair - it takes two to tango!
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∙ 15y agoNo ... especially as you do not know who initiated the affair in the first place. Since the affair has happened, both parties involved are equally responsible. Get professional counseling for you and your wife ... now. Do all you can to save your marriage if at all possible.
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∙ 15y ago* Be sure he is cheating and it's not vicious gossip or you aren't being overly jealous or second-guessing what he is doing. If you are sure then don't waste the time confronting the woman because it is your boyfriend/husband that is guilty of cheating and not her. He can form the words 'NO!' It means he perpetuated the cheating. Generally people that cheat are self centered, self absorbed, don't care who they hurt and so immature they can't work through any problems in a relationship and they will cheat again given half a chance. There is only a very small percentage of people that will cheat and never cheat again. It would be wise of you to tell him you know what is going on and then kick his hide out the door! If you don't respect yourself enough to stand up for your rights then no one will respect you.
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∙ 14y ago- If an individual has proof their mate is cheating then they should always confront their cheating partner, but have proof. When someone who cheats knows it's wrong (and it is) and confesses to their partner they did cheat then that person deserves another chance, but when you have to catch the mate who is cheating they will most likely cheat again and it's time for you to move on.
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∙ 6y agoYou should see if you can find more evidence first, try dropping hints about cheaters to see her reactions.
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∙ 14y agoOF CORSE! dont let him cheat on her any longer. go ahead and tell her ;]
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Should you confront the woman your husband has been cheating with?
Confront your husband first. This is the best move.
What do you do when a woman who could likely be vindictive and seek revenge thinks her husband now ex-husband cheated with you and she doesn't believe you?
Her husband has probably cheated on her more than once and any woman who is loyal to their husband and finds out they have cheated is extremely hurt and certainly will become angry, but few seek revenge. If you feel threatened by her and you know her ex then the three of you should meet and you tell her right to her face you had nothing to do with him; get up and tell the two of them to grow up and he should tell her the truth and then walk away (do this in a public place.)
If in your heart you know your man is cheating should you confront the woman that you suspect.?
no. The one you should confront is your man. And if he is cheating it's his loss.
Would you feel special if your husband told you that his ex mistress was a lot better than you?
No, a woman should not feel special if her husband said she was a lot better than his mistress because he cheated on her and he will continue to cheat.
Should the wife confront the other woman about the affair?
yes == ==
How can you forgive your husband if he cheated you and have a new baby in another woman?
You can't. If your husband is STILL cheating on you after you found out, divorce him.
I cheated on my husband but im in love with a woman what should I do I have a hard time saying goodbye But he is giving me a deadline of tomorriw to stop seeing my lover?
If you're in love with a women you should pursue that. If you don't love your husband and cheated on him you're only going to be unhappy in the long run. Tell him how you feel before the deadline tomorrow, and continue to see your lover.
How should a woman be treated by her husband?
A woman should be treated with respect, love and understanding. A husband should be treated in the same way.
What will you gain if you question the woman's your husband had the affair with?
A hole in your heart followed by lies, just try to forgive him and confront him directly for information.
Should you be upset that your husband wants to have lunch with a single woman that he barely knows from his past?
If your husband has never cheated before then no, you shouldn't be worried about your husband having lunch with a single woman from his past. However, if you are worried then ask him why he hasn't asked you to join them.ANSWER:If it was me, I wouldn't because I trust him. But I will also ask him who this woman is and why she pop back into his life. And I will suggest that I wouldn't mind if I join them so I could meet her.
What should I do about my husband getting a girl pregnant?
What you should do is confront the girl he got pregnant. Ask her what happened. Find out how long they have been seeing each other then your husband can't lie to you when you go talk to him. You know the truth ANSWER You have some tough times coming your way. A cheating husband with a child by another woman. I do not believe that there is any reason to contact the other woman, because she is not the one that cheated on you. I do believe that you should walk away from your husband in order to get a clear mind. ANSWER 2 You should not confront the other woman. Why would she tell you the truth? I am not sure what else you need to know. There is no question that he cheated. Take time to decide what will be best for YOU. You should not consider what will be best for the husband. Keep in mind that for the next 18 years, you will be reminded of his infidelty EVERY month when he pays child support. You will need to decide if you can stay in your present situation and not become bitter and depressed. That would make you become a different person. You can't change his behavior or the past. The only thing you have control of, would be your behavior. ANSWER He is your husband/partner for life. Although she was willing you're not married to her and now you should be strong and get out asap because you will never be able to trust in any part of your marriage. The cheating willl be on your mind all the time. It will consume you everyday and you will be miserable. Questioning him in every conversation because you have no idea if your getting an honest answer. Also if it works out he will probably want the child in his life and you will always be reminded of his cheating.
How do you get rid of a woman who is stalking your husband?
If you don't already know why she is bothering your husband, you and him should talk to get to the bottom of the problem (if one exists). Then, both you & your husband should inform her that her behaviour is unacceptable, and if it does not stop, you will involve the police. If she continues even just one more time after, follow through on involving the police and file a report.
