Is it wrong to want to have a baby in high school?
We can't let hormones run our lives. That baby will need food and clothes and someone to look after it during the days. And you will get a low paid job without a education and kids cost tons of money. For 18 years. Your parents are obligated to support you until you are 18 and not the baby and they also have the right to kick you out then. Daycare cost a lot. Is the future father in on it? His parents? One if not both need a well paid job. You will most likely not afford to move out once you are 18. Teen moms live at home with their parents longer (if they allow it). So unless this happens after you have moved out, is done without education and have a job, you need to discuss this with the 3 other people who will share this with you; your parents and the future dad. Wanting a child this young is not wrong but going ahead and get one without considering the consequences for you, your child, the father and your parents is wrong. It's selfish and you can start by not being selfish since that is the #1 thing a parent can never be. Money or the lack thereof is a boring subject but trust me, when it's reality it's even worse. And by then you have a child in it as well. If you like kids, start babysitting and save money. Get a education and job and make sure the father is on it so he doesn't leave his child without a dad. That is also your responsibility. To choose a good dad. It takes a lot to become a parent, not just having sex.
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What should you do if you and your girlfriend are both seniors in high school and you are both 17 and she is now pregnant and she wants to keep the baby but you don't know what to do?
\n. \n Answer \n. \nAs hard as it is for you both, you need to both see each set of your parents and tell them. Soon you will be 18 and can do as you please. Of cours…e your parents will be upset, but they'll get over it. Have a plan with your girlfriend as to what you want in the future. Perhaps your parents and her parents can help look after the baby and when you are both 18 get married. She should have this baby and you should be part of it. I have no idea if you want to attend college, but if not at least get a good trade (money is good) and discuss this with her parents. You could help support the child and parents of the daughter love to hear this. Mean it!\n. \nI know it seems that your world is falling apart, but sex is natural and those that didn't get pregnant were just blasted lucky. There are few people (including parents) that had premarital sex. Once they get over the shock they should be supportive of you both. If you both want to keep the baby stand fast and don't let up. Once you both hold that baby in your arms anything is possible! Because you have gone together for 4 years and seem to have a good relationship it sounds like you would have a good chance of being excellent parents and also sustaining a marriage.\n. \nGood luck & God Bless
\n. \n Having a Baby at 14 \n. \nIt's not wrong. it's love! It is also a real challenge. LOL\n. \n . Well, at 14 you can't even get married in most states. You have n…o ability to support or take care of a child. You can't rent a home, buy a car or establish credit. And what would your parents say? You are certainly not ready at 14 to have and care for a child. You are still one yourself physically.\n . \n . It's not wrong to want anything. It would become wrong if you decided to actually have a baby at 14, though. First of all, everything the person said in the last post is true. You would be bringing a baby into the world that in no way are you capable of taking care of. You're not even able to take care of yourself, so who would take care of you both? Your boyfriend? That's doubtful. Chances are it would be your parents, and that's not fair to them, the baby, or you. Have you thought about how your life would change? I know a girl who got pregnant at 13 and had her baby at 14. She was no longer able to do the things she wanted to do, and her teachers treated her so much like dirt that she dropped out and finished high school at an adult learning center. That didn't make for much fun during her teenage years, and she would be the first person to tell you to wait until you are older to even have sex.\n . \nChances are the boyfriend you have now won't even be your boyfriend for more than a few months. The girl I know was madly in love with the baby's father, and he was in love with her, too. It didn't last, though, and relationships at 14 seldom do. So, there you would be: a mother tied down to a child, missing out on regular teenage activities and the boy would be off having fun with some other girl. It wouldn't make for much of a life for you, would it?\n. \nI suggest you think very seriously about your desire to have a child at 14 and make the truly mature decision to grow up yourself before bringing another life into this world. \n. \nDeb
I want to attend this school because its amazing - be sure todetail what you expect to learn from their programs that will helpyou in the future.
What if your in 8th grade but the guy that you want to date and he wants to date you is a sophomore in high school and you go to two different schools- is that wrong?
I wouldn't say that it is wrong to date someone older than you are and who goes to a different school, but it will likely cause problems.. Your parents may object to you dati…ng an older boy. That is more likely to be a problem than him being in a different school.. If it's ok with your parents, I would say that it is not wrong.
What if your in 8th grade but the guy that you want to date and he wants to date you but he is a sofmore in high school is that wrong?
No it is not wrong. If you really like each other age doesn't really matter!
your stupid.... u should wait till your older ( about 25 years old ) ... working... and married... having a child is a great responsibility... you dont want your child growing… up unhappy do u?
It depends on the circumstance I guess. If it involves the baby directly, then yeah, it's not good. I suspect that is not what you are looking for. But, if it's just the produ…ct of the baby(dirty diapers) and the humiliation involved in being forced to wear a diaper that a baby used, then I think it's probably ok. In fact that's a huge fantasy of mine. Being dominated by a mom who forces me to wear the freshly worn used diaper of a child as a form of humiliation.
Its not wrong, but i do warn you that if u are thing of following it through, that many girl that i have known have had babies at your age and say its a lot of hard work and y…ou miss out on a lot of lifes experiences. So its better to put it off till later but no its not wrong In my personal opinion, i think its wrong because you'll be in school and you'll miss out on almost everything... especially if your boyfriend leaves you, and you should be settled and have it planned and should be married so if your husband tries to back off you can get child support, lol but it's not too bad if you had it planned and have a job and a house and money to support the baby.... sometimes i think its not so good to have a baby at 17 nor 18 budd then i do because long as u got a job , house, house, n money...
Yes. A 15 year old can't possibly have the means to support a child.
More people working in Tuck shops for shorter and faster rows. . Less homework and more time to do extraterrestrial activities . Access to cellphones in school time in case …of needed contact with parents or guardians and friends.
Well you have 3 choices: keeping it, giving it up for adoption or abortion. If you choose to go through with it you can choose to give it up later but you need to think of all… the aspects; financial, support to back you up at home, is the dad in the picture, job/education etc. If you choose abortion do not wait but have it as early as possible. In the beginning it is fetal tissue but later in the pregnancy it is a baby. Makes it worse then. Make a plan and stick to it. We on WA can't really make that decision for you.
You turned 18 in September but want to date a 15 year old and are both still in high school. Is this wrong?
Three years difference might cause problems with some parents. It's an age difference most people wouldn't see any problem with, though.
In Teen Dating
Well i think ya forgot to finish the rest of the question there honey
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I'm a sophomore girl in high school who wanted to date this freshman girl in college. Is this wrong?
As long as your parents are abcent of you
In High School
Yes that's just wrong I mean u hava earn it
Most don't mean to but have irresponsible sex and out comes baby.
It's not wrong to want a baby, but wanting one and having one aretwo different things. Children are an enormous responsibility.