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Is it worth sacrificing a solid relationship with someone you love and who loves you to return to a loveless marriage?
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∙ 8y ago
No, the children will be happier if you and their other parent are happy and treat them well. I come from divorced parents and I'm sure I am better off because they divorced and got along afterwards, and gave us all lots of love.
'You shouldn't even have a "solid relationshsip with someone you love" if you are already married. My advice is to return to your marriage and BUILD the love - it can be done! Arranged marriages in other countries work all the time because they HAVE to.
[Comment: That's the whole point. But if you're lucky enough to live under conditions that allow more freedom, you shouldn't comply to moral ideas that came into existence under living conditions that no longer apply to yours. The only reason to do so is to oblige yourself, because you'd either never forgive yourself for breaking up a marriage or you prefer self-sacrifice and dreams to fulfillment and reality.]
When you married your current spouse, it was for better or for worse. This may be one of the worse times, but it is not impossible to share an even stronger love with your current spouse than the one you have with this other person. You won't be "sacrificing" your current extra-marital relationship because it couldn't possibly be as solid as you say if you are already married. In this day and age it is all too easy to toss a comittment in the garbage, but that is not how it was meant to be. Do this world a favor and be one of the moral ones'.....
To this reply , why don't you say it shorter.....that she should 'PUT UP AND SHUT UP!'How can you make judgments on a situation or a person you don't know enough about?
If there weren't children involved, then my advice would be a "no, don't sacrifice your new love."
However, just because you have children with your husband, and you've left him, that doesn't end the relationship with the children.
Is it possible that you (and your "new" man) could move back to the same town/city, or nearby, so you can still visit the kids?
Yes, it will complicate things with the kids, but it's MUCH better than them not knowing you at all, and it is DEFINATELY better than them growing up in a household if there is resentment or ill feeling between parents.
Statistically, 60% of marriages end in divorce or separation nowadays. It's sad, but it's not unusualy and your kids will adapt, and will still love you.
NO! IT IS NOT WORTH IT just for the sake of the marriage. Don't have low self esteem and know your self worth.You deserve to be happy.
It depends on the marriage. Usually if both spouses are mature, and willing to work and sacrifice for each other, they can have a loving relationship once again. If something serious happened, like infidelity, or abuse, then leave the marriage.
You should never, ever try to find another romantic relationship if you're married though. It hurts everyone involved.
Why would you even ask this? Dang!
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∙ 8y ago
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Why would a man stay in a loveless marriage if he's in love with another women?
well that's entirely up to the individual, in my personal opinion he should not stay in a loveless marriage but it depends on the consequences... if there are children involved or financial implications or maybe the thought of being alone keeps him in a marriage.
What is a marriage relationship?
"Marital" pertains to "marriage", and being married to someone.
Can someone have a healthier marriage after her husbands affair?
That all depends on the people that make up that relationship.
What where some Inca rituals?
sacrificing Sacrificing was one ceremony but, they also did rituals when someone died or commit a crime or someone was born. They also had rituals for they're gods. :)
Is it right to break up after marriage ultimatum?
What's the point of staying in the relationship if it isn't going anywhere? Better to cut loose and find someone interested in a long term relationship.
What is name of relationship between your kids and your sisters husband?
nece and nefu i spelled it wrong though sorry if someone could update this better Your daughters are his nieces by marriage and your sons are his nephews by marriage.
What do you do if your married and your spouse has feeling for someone else?
Sadly, it depends on whether your spouse will agree to stop the other relationship immediately and work on the relationship with you. If not, or if you believe you cannot forgive the error, then your marriage is over.
What does it mean to love someone spiritually?
it means to honor it, to love it, and to fear it
How does someone get compensation if not married but in a committed relationship for 20 years?
Generally there are no laws that provide the rights you want outside of marriage. Marriage bestows hundreds if not thousands of rights on people who are legally married. It is the reason that so many advocate for same sex marriage.
What do you do when someone is undecided of spending their future with you?
As painful as it is, you need to be the one to end the relationship now. Regardless if it's a relationship or a marriage you are seeking with this person, do not be with anyone who isn't happy, confident and secure in sharing a future with you.
How do you explain why marriage is important for a relationship to be more secure?
A relationship should already feel committed and secure before any marriage occurs. You should only marry someone if you have a complete feeling of security with them. If there is insecurity and problems in the relationship currently, getting married will not solve these issues. In fact, the problems will likely intensify. If you can't trust someone currently or don't feel they are committed to you, marrying them will not make you trust them any further or increase their committment.
What is considered a long term relationship?
A long term relationship can be defined many ways, just depending on the person defining it. I feel that a long term relationship is several years long, however someone who is single may see 1 year as a long term relationship.
