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First met me say I bet. like many other things, there are varying degrees of narcissim. I think I know someone who attempts this very approach. He is a conflicted person and manages this approach with some success Yet I have been hurt very deeply by him and here is why. From the beginning a part of him always reached out to me for contact. At the same time, from early on, he also told me he hated people and preferred his own company. I always got the sense that there was a good guy being kept down by the bad guy. That good guy kept asking for contact, the kind of thing we all need as humans. The bad guy, who definitely had narci traits,kept claiming he was a loner, preferred his own company etc. I am not a therapist, and most of all my experiences have been with well adjusted people. Yet, I was taught to minister to the sick and he came across as someone asking for help. And, of course, as I have learned from reading about narcis, he had many entertaining qualities and we shared some sort of connection. Though I have never known anyone like this, I kept enough distance that I did not get my life entangled with his. Yet I did get very emotionally involved by responding to the good guy ( who often felt like a scared little boy) Eventually, he lied to me about something that involved my personal safety and when I confronted him with the lie, he turned it on me. I decided I would only talk with him together with someone trained to help people. He may or may not decide to do so, and I have not heard from him since. So, to answer the question, I'd say this " solution" is something that would cross a conflicted narcissist's mind, someone with a conscience. And yeah, a narci with conscience is a bit of an oxymoron but things are not always black and white. But, would this solution be viable ? In reality,I doubt it. It is very difficult to be alone. We humans naturally crave some contact. It gives our lives dimension. I believe, that like so many other problems in life... full disclosure, getting the problem out in the open, and working on the problem at hand is the only hope for solution. This really should be done with someone who is experienced with this type of work.

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