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Sure because the only way they validate themselves is by controlling another. They put on a good farce in the beginning to reel a person in and when they know they have them, bam, they become a monster. Sad to say that it is far too common and the other thing that abusers have in common is they actually are the ones that are more fearful, afraid of being alone and afraid no one will love them, so they act out in there own demented way.

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