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If your husband is verbally abusive and controlling you fall out of love to the point that you are now in love with another man should you stay married for the sake of the kids?
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I think its important to try and stay with some one for the sake of your children, but it sounds like your marrige is so bad, that all you are likely to be doing is upsetting the children with your arguments, and him being abusive to you. I think long term, the children will be happier if you split up, and they could see both their parents truly happy.
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My husband is verbally abusive?
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How can you trust your husband not to be controlling and verbally abusive?
http://www.coping.org/relations/boundar/intro.htm The above URL might be helpful in determining healthy boundaries in a relationship so that you can recognise such boundaries, set them and maintain them should you be in what is an abusive or controlling relationship. One does not passively *trust* that a partner will not be "controlling" or "verbally abusive" whatever promises may be made and however contrite the emotionally abusive partner may be. Rather, it is our responsibility to ensure we recognise what does and does not promote our emotional wellbeing and that we take steps to set and maintain limits to ensure our own emotional safety. It is important to know ourselves and our limits and to clearly, clamly and assertively convey those limits to others and ask that they be respected. Obviously, if a partner cannot or will not recognise our limits we must take steps to protect ourselves. If we are committed to the relationship in question, then we may try avenues such as counselling to alter the destructive dyamics within a relationship. However, if a partner is unwilling to confront the problems and to make lasting changes via intervention, then we must put an end to the relationship with an abusive partner for the sake of self-preservation.
How does a new pregnancy affect abusive ex husband?
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
Should you leave your husband that is verbally abusive to you and your 4 year old daughter?
counseling seems a better first step. find out what is making him so angry all the time and if you are willing to wait for him to get over it.
