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If your boyfriend is verbally abusive but his exes are on good terms with him is it just you he abused or was their self esteem lowered like yours and they wanted to please him before they got out?
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∙ 18y ago
I would highly doubt that he has only been this way towards you. It is usually part of a person's personality and unless they have sought treatment, they normally are like that once they have settled into a relationship and it has nothing at all to do with you. Chances are, they are either A - Afraid of him (do they have children between them that they need to remain cordial for), or they are just so damned relieved to be away from him that they are just acting that way around him or in front of you. It's a lot easier to be on "good terms" with someone when you are out of their control and not subject to their abuse any longer. You will see when you get out of this relationship -- which you really do need to do. THE MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE HERE IS (and I am so sorry if it hurts to hear this, but you need to hear this over and over) -- Who cares if he was the most awesome guy in the world before he met you??? The most important factor here is that he is abusive to you, and life is to short to waste one more day with this man. You will get over it -- you must get out or get some help or both. Talk to a friend. Talk to a counselor. Even if his abuse is what you consider to be "not that bad" in your eyes, if you are not receiving what you need from this relationship, and it is not making you feel happy and special, it is time to get out. Women have left many many men over less. Thanks so much. Your answer really put things in perspective for me. I am 22, he is 33, and this is my first "serious" relationship. There are so many red flags, I just need to take heed to them and run! Whenever we get in a fight, its silent treatment for a day or more. It tears me up when he does that. Even if its something he did, he will turn the blame on me and verbally just go off. I know, I should only be concerned on how he treats me, i was just wondering if it was just ME that was making him yell and lose his temper. Thanks again! Hi. Its probably because his ex girlfriend/s are just glad to be rid of him that he can no longer affect them. They have probably moved on to bigger and better and dont care what he does. They probably act friendly to be polite like how they would feel about a little dog on the street. Everyone probably can read this loser like a bad novel and they probably wonder what you are doing with him. Dump him and move on to someone else. Your 22 and you have alot of time to chose the right guy. This guy will only get worse....why wait around till your 50? Move on and best of luck.
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∙ 18y ago
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Who are the victims of an abusive relationship?
The person being abused and any children who are there to witness it are victims.
Is there a test to take if your parents verbally abused you?
If you have to ask... Then you are probably being abused verbally.
Do women hit their boyfriend when they are being verbally abused?
Some do, some don't. The smart ones hopefully walk away from the relationship when they recognize they are being abused and that they don't deserve it.
If you are being verbally and physically abused what can you do if he thinks it's your fault because you push his buttons?
Blaming the victim, or partner is one of the many ways the abusive person uses to confuse the victim and/or to make it "seem" acceptable. Please read The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans and visit www.drirene.com for more information.
Are you cruel to start seeing another man the day after you dumped your abusive ex-boyfriend?
No, you are not cruel to start seeing another man the day after you dumped your abusive ex-boyfriend because he didn't care about you when he abused you, so you shouldn't care about his feelings.
How do you prove your boyfriend is abusive without him catching you?
My suggestion is to call your local Domestic Abuse Hotline. You can find it by looking in your local Yellow Pages. Your call will be confidential and they will be equipped with up-to-date information and resources unique to wherever it is that you live. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED - physically - verbally - or mentally! Good luck.
Your boyfriend recently abused your dog is this a sign that he will abuse you next?
Not necessarily, but you might want to think about getting away from him, because it shows that he does have a abusive behavior in him.
Is abused an adjective?
Correct, abusive is an adjective.
How can you make someone understand that just because she thinks she knows how to handle her husband's verbally abusive comments doesn't mean that she is not in a verbally abusive relationship?
Until she is willing to realize that she is verbally abused, there is nothing you can do. She may well have most of it under control, and, there is the possibility that her mate may not be well. Sometimes medications or certain diseases such as stroke, diabetes, depression, etc., can cause people to appear abusive. You're a good person to worry about her, but don't fight her, try to learn from her and where SHE is coming from. Let her know you are there for her. You'll gain more from her this way, then by telling her how she should act on this problem. Good luck Marcy
Is it illegal to verbally abuse a man?
No, it is not illegal to verbally abuse a man, but if the man was smart he would leave. Verbal abuse can leave just as many scars for a victim as physical abuse. There are programs for abused men that they should attend and learn tools in order to get out of the verbally abusive situation. Example: If a wife is verbally abusing her husband and he decides to divorce her and he can prove she is verbally abusing him then the court could press charges against her (highly unlikely) but you would be granted a divorce.
What actors and actresses appeared in Sonny - 2011?
The cast of Sonny - 2011 includes: Sonny Casson as Sonny Johnny Parr as Abusive Boyfriend Charlotte Rampling as Abused Women
What should you do if your boyfriend is abusive?
call the police. you do not deserve to be abused. no one does.AnswerGet away from him. No one deserves abuse and there are too many people in this world who will treat you good. If he is physically abusive go to your local police department and get a restraining order against him.
