If you really love her must you tell her or is it enough that sees it in your actions?

Answer 1

I think that you should show her that u love her cause actions speak louder then words but then again a lot of girls don't pay enough attention so u might wanna just tell her. But basically show and tell her.

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Does she love you? If she does you should be able to say it with ease. Your actions can be interpreted in many different ways, either in a positive or negative light. Words are very straight forward, and can be as vague, subtle, or extreme as you want it to be. For example, "People say hate is a strong word and that we shouldn't use it, but love is a strong word too; should we use it?" Not saying this has anything to do towards the question given, but merely an example of what I just said.

Every action you take is like placing a bet on roulette, (that game with a ball and spinning numbers, yeah you know, that one). The more extreme you are the less likely your going to get a positive outcome, but also the more likely you are to find yourself in her eyes.

So in general, actions are for people who are not well with expressing how they feel and words are for people who can easily read a mood and not ruin a relationship by just opening their mouths.

From my experience I would match my actions with my words, don't contradict yourself.

Brought to you by the failure of a student counselor in high school, who effectively ended many relationships, but also started as many.

Akira

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