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If you have a gut feeling that your wife is cheating on you with a coworker is that sufficient evidence of cheating?
No! Put yourself in her place. What if a boss asked you and a female coworker to work late and of course you had to comply. Simply because she is female and you have to work late does that mean your wife should be sure you are cheating?
On the other hand, if she is working too many hours of over-time, never bothers to call and keep in touch with you, is late for dinner, breaks dates and misses important family events then you need to sit down and have a good talk with her. I stress communication in my posts. Without communication there is only imagination and jealousy lurking in our brains. You could be worried over nothing, yet if you really feel this is going on you need to find out now.
Don't attack your wife and put her on the defensive. Simply sit down and ask her why she is out so much. If you don't like the answer then you are just going to have to lay your feelings out for her and go from there.
Check it out, hire a private investigator. It feels sleezy, but it's better to know. I had some evidence for 8 months and sat on it. If your gut says somethings wrong, it probably is. I'm sorry, but I just recently learned to trust my gut instincts.
well my husband had a gut feeling and he was right. i was cheating with a coworker and the things to look out for is what i did, saying that i was just going out with my friends, buying new things for myself and getting dolled up, i was sleeping in another room, i was very distant from my husband and children. I fell in love with this coworker and he dumped me and now i a mess. it was my first time ever cheating on my husband and i wish it never had happend and now i can not take it back. It really sucks!
I am going through it now,my gut is telling me she is cheating on me.She is getting dolled up all the sudden,lies to me to protect me she says,and stays home sometimes at night now.Her mother even tells me she is not that kinda girl to ever cheat and she doesn't need sex. BUT MY GUT SAYS DIFFERENT, and i learned twice now to trust my gut not the girl!
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If you believe your significant other cheated how reliable is your gut feeling if it is telling you so?
Usually the person that is suspicious of their mate has a good reason for having that gut feeling, but often goes into a denial mode and often will ignore the signs. You can't… ignore the signs forever. However, there are many men that don't cheat on their mates, so, be real sure you don't make a big mistake. If you don't have proof and he is good to you, then sit down and talk with him. Some women can be extremely jealous and no matter how many times the man denies he isn't cheating she will never believe him. A confident woman will either face her mate that is cheating and kick him to the curb, or make sure from the beginning of the relationship that if she ever catches him cheating that will definitely be the end of the relationship (no second chances!) Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. If your guts is telling you he is, then he probably is because whether you admit it to yourself or not the signs were always there. Good luck Marcy B: Every men has their own private ways. The husband or the wife can really sense or tell if their significant others is doing something wrong. We might ignore the sign but it will be to obvious not to see. We were given a gift that we always know how to use, especially to our love ones. For a man and wife, it doesn't matter what the do or do not do but still the sense of feelings that we have is very strong. If your sensing your spouse is doing something that out of his/her character its up to you to talk and ask question so it will make sense. But if you ignored it, and something is wrong you are letting this to happen. Don't be afraid to approach your spouse, talk, ask and you might be surprise the outcome of it. Don't loose your faith and be strong...............
If you will not move on, Then move out. Make a choice and get it done.
the kind of gut feeling that makes you get a shotgun and blow his head off
Is a man cheating when he's on the phone at midnight for ten minutes with a coworker when his wife is at work?
Unfortunately there is not enough information to give a thorough answer. If this man and his co-worker are normally up at this hour, the call was only ten minutes, and this is… not common. Then no, the man is certainly not cheating. If he's not normally up at that hour, the calls start running longer, he only talks to the co-worker while his wife is at work, and it goes on several days out of the week, then there might be some cause for concern, but it doesn't automatically mean he is cheating.
I found out my wife cheated on me by looking in her e-mails. I know this was wrong but I had a gut feeling and it was true. How can I get her to admit it without telling her I saw the emails?
Why are you worried she will be upset if you looked, tell her you saw it, she is the one that has all the explaining to do.Its her fault for cheating, don't feel guilty …for checking up on her,then set down and start talking, there must be something lacking in your marriage that made her cheat. listen to her, then tell her what you feel, Don't yell
Take it to a lawyer and make her pay alimony.
Its like how it feels if you think your husband is having an affair. There's no difference when it comes to man and woman. Follow your instinct and never doubt what that littl…e voice is telling you. But the good answer that you can really trust on is talk to your wife. Ask her questions that she might have problems with you. Some wives will only go to that direction if their husband is not paying attention to them. This is up to you, talk, talk and never stop talking, if not you will end up alone...
Once they've tasted strange sex, they'll think about it a lot. Sex with a strange man is the #1 women's fantasy.
It is none of your business.
Unless you are talking about business with this woman by cell then you should only keep your casual conversations at work. You already know you are playing with fire as you ha…ve absolutely no reason to constantly talk with this coworker and therefore, whether you have an affair with this woman or not you are, in ways cheating on your wife. When in doubt put yourself in your wife's shoes .. how would you feel if she did what you are doing?
You might want to re state the questin it doesn't make sense but it could mean many things lol.
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invincibility: rocky 50,000 points: rambo
Really awful. She should just try to forget about it. If you can't try to find a new person to hang out with like some of your friends. If you don't have friends well to bad c…ause I have none. ANSWER: From my own personal experience, my whole world cave in on me without warning. I had ignored what I was seeing towards my husband when he was having the affair. I thought everything was fine, except our sex life. Don't get me wrong from the time I met him and we got married, he wasn't really a man that loves and can seduce a woman in bed, but because I loved him, it was okay if he doesn't know how to seduce his wife. The reason why we were having a problem, after 20 odd years I finally complained to him that he never made me feel good as a woman, and he never made time for me, always gone, and always busy. Because of these, he told me that I was rejecting him. So I didn't know he joined a dating site to look for someone that will understand him and talk to him. In short the man I marry was hungry to find women friends on a dating site. From there that's when things started with the special woman he met.
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Simply because he is a police officer there is no special unlawful or illegal connotation applied to his transgression. However he, and his co-worker COULD be disciplined by t…heir agency for "Conduct Unbecoming." Hardly anyone is prosecuted for adultery these days, and, indeed, many (most?) states have struck it from their statute books.
drink a bottle of scotch now why would you cheat on your wife. there is no reason to cheat on anyone... drink a couple bottles of scotch
What do you do if you have a strong gut feeling that your soon to be wife fiance is cheating on you?
humans are given power of gut feeling by god, if you feel that you have suspicion on a person with whom you are supposed to spend your entire life, my earnest advise is not to… go for the wedding, after all its about a lifetime commitment. not a agony aunt yet another advise is to confront your fiance with your doubts, sort out the differences and get married.