How should you deal with bullying?

Answer 1

What happens when you got bullied?

Great question!

Whenever you got bullied, you should warn the person to stop(1st time bullying you that day). If you get bullied the second time, it is good to tell your teacher or parents. If you get bullied the 3rd time, talk to your school counselor for help. If you get bullied the 4th time, you should fight back. If you get bullied the 5th time, ask help from your friends to beat that person up!

Answer 2

No ones like to get bullied. Not young children, not teenagers, not even adults. As people get bullied they think "why me?". Let me tell you something right now: there's always a bully out there somewhere. They come in the form of mean, snappy teachers, little kindergarten children, racist/sexist pigs, and sometimes even your older brother or sister. Bullies will always be out there waiting for their next victim.

You might be wondering "why do bullies bully?". Well that question has many answers to it. They may see it as a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge. Some bullies do it to get attention or things, or to make other people afraid of them. Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may be being bullied themselves. Some times bullies may not even understand how wrong their behavior is and how it makes the person being bullied feel. Other times, bullies feel insecure about themselves and find a reason to point out any faults about anyone else so it'll make them feel better about themselves. All these answers are true, but none of them excuse the bullying that goes on.

Let me tell you a quote that always sticks with me when I get bullied: "Bullies are sad b**ches that turn down the happiness they will never deserve." I love this quote because it really means something. I love it because it is so true! Nothing can never be satisfied bullies unfortunately and that's why they'll never be happy. Remember that.

I know I was supposed to just answer the question above, but this subject is just so important to me that it had to be explained. Now, how should you deal with bullying? There are many ways to deal with bullying. Ignore it, report it, embrace it, but never be apart of it. That's called following. Ugh, I hate followers! Anyways, in some cases it's best that you ignore bullies unless they're being physically harmful to you. That's when you should report it. If you notify authorities about what's going on they won't always know the best way to handle it, but at least they can address it. Sometimes, embracing the bullying isn't always the best idea because bullies might take it the wrong way and think "well she/he isn't reacting the way I wanted her/him to so I'll try to test him/her." Don't even feed into that. What they do is play mind games with you. That's why embracing the bullying might make the bullies take the bullying another (and most of the time unsafe) level. See which one of these strategies best suites you.

Okay so my hands are getting tired of typing and i think I typed a lot. I just wrote this because I got bullied the day I wrote this( I know too personal). I searched bullying on the computer and decided to elaborate on it in essay form on Answers.com. This is how i deal with bullying and handle it by reporting it to the dean of my school. Do the same and remember you are not the only victim of the world and you can overcome that. ;-D

Answer 3

If you are a child being bullied tell your parents first if continued then tell your teacher if still continued then its time for war {fight fire with fire}