How do you pity yourself?

Answer 1

It is quite easy. Many people feel sorry for themselves or pity themselves because thay believe they have been unlucky or victimised.

If I was poor or sick or lonely or old I would have self pity.

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I would like to know that myself.

I lived 10 years of civil war in my childhood. My mother was mean to me, telling me that i don't deserve her and never having any pity on me. School reports are all concluded with the same remarks - can do better, insufficient work.

I barely had friends at school. I watched as other had the times of their lifes. I grew up to flunk college, and have a miserable excuse for a carreer. First time I kissed a girl was when I was 24. First relationship was age 28, one month, and I got dumped.

I now realise why I do this. I got stuck somewhere in childhood, with my mother beig harsh on me, and ever since all I do is try to get some pity, and all i receive is "it is your fault"

Why cant i ask for pity? If I only asked Im sure id get it... but i don't... hey then i wont have any reason to seek pity anymore, right?

So now Im trying to learn how to pity myself...

What do you think I should do, ask for pity?

I just want to know there is pity in this world, so that i can move on with less fear and be less harsh on myself.

Help me, please.

Find a girl whose really beautiful.

example: Rainie Yang..

then think... will you ever confess your love for her?

are you that far away from her?

does she care about you? because you really care about her.

is the world really this unbalanced?

why does 1 must suffer for someone to be happy..

then youll find yourself that you already pity urself.. :D

Answer 2

Pitying oneself can be harmful as it often leads to negative self-perception and can hinder personal growth. It's important to practice self-compassion instead, by acknowledging your struggles without dwelling on them and seeking support when needed. Focus on nurturing a positive mindset and taking proactive steps towards self-improvement.