I guess I did this wrong... I have been dating someone for 2 years. He lost his wife about 3 years ago, they have 2 younger children. I have never been in a relationship where someone has spoken to me the way he does. He is constantly putting blame on me for his out bursts. His own children think he is psychotic and agree that he snaps out of no where and is just down right nasty. His issues have nothing at all to do with losing his wife. How do you stop the verbal abuse? I love this man, want a future with him but NOT under the circumstances. He is on his best behavior a wonderful, generous man. Will this ever stop? How do you get them to see that they have anger issues and are being verbally abusive, when I draw it to his attention and ask if he would like some man to speak to his 15 year old daughter the way he speaks to me...he says NO, and that I dont deserve to be spoken to that way. My family loves him, so do my children but I am certain that this is not "normal"
im trying to figure out if my husband has been in a previous relationship that he was verbaly mentaly and emotionaly abused
if he is never home or is doing things he doesnt normally do or mabe he is out late all the time,he acts different twards you
ask him
this is an easy question: see if he goes places alot and be on the phone too much.
There really isn't a way to know if your husband is not cheating any more. You will need to trust that when he tells you he is not cheating that he is not. Of course, you could hire a private investigator to follow him 24/7.
cheating is doing anything you wouldnt want your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend to know about
You are in total control of yourself and you don't need permission or even to wonder about talking to your husband about his cheating. Let him know what you know and tell him if he continues to cheat you are filing for a divorce. Take control!
she's scared she might not have a chance with your husband again.
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
No. A husband with a cheating wife is called a cuckold.
Unless you find him in bed with another person, you won't know for sure.
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
Don't count on dreams with such a serious issue such as your husband cheating on you. The subconscious can pick up many things during a given day or, you even watch something on TV where a husband has cheated on his wife and if you are not confident in yourself you could have a dream where your husband is cheating. If you want to know for sure because you heavily suspect he is then sit down and talk it over (good communication skills.) It is probably not likely he is cheating.
Divorce him and if he threatens or attacks you, then call the police