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How do you handle the narcissist who tries to ruin your reputation after you leave him?
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∙ 17y ago
you take it and ignore it you laugh it off and agree sarcasticly.. tell him lines such as "what ever" and "suuuuuuure" if you show it dosent bother you he or she will drop it eventualy... DO NOT SINK TO THEIR LEVEL Trust yourself because you know who you are and you're one strong person for leaving this narcissist. I call this "shaking the old apple tree" which means those that choose to believe his lies about you were never your friends in the first place and those that stand by your side are your true friends. Consider it a short-cut in life. Good for you! Keep going girl! Someone once told me, "You know who you are. Walk with your head held high - with dignity." The truth 'always' prevails. If not now - later. Try to trust this universal law. Those who know you - those worthy of your friendship and love - will always know the truth. The rest will eventually, even if you are not privy to it. Going against our instincts to defend can be one of the most difficult tasks before us, but silence can speak far louder than our words. If ever in a situation where you are faced with a "fact" about yourself that is untrue, simply find a few powerful, calm, mature words that will get the truth across, while retaining your dignity and composure. Never forget who you are and walk assuredly in that truth. Best wishes & an end to troubles, AlwaysLearning
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