How can you get a girl to forgive you and speak to you again?

Answer 1

well I think the way you should do is by maybe sending them card telling them ur sorry calling them on the phone But the most important one is to tell them face 2 face and just show that ur really sorry tell words that r mean alot make eye contact so they will know you mean it write them a song or something a poem BUT DONT FORGET 2 DO EYE contact

Answer 2

By showing her how sorry you are and being repentant. Have you asked for forgiveness yet ??

By regaining her trust..once you break a womens trust it takes alot to get that back. You have to show her your sorry..REALLY SORRY. and get her to trust you again.

Miz Blonde

Answer 3

You can not get forgiveness, It is given! Act as if you do not care if she forgives you or not. The more you dwell on it the worse it will be. Women love having something over you. Do not allow that-Take that away from her! Act like you don't care! She already knows if she is going to forgive you or not. It is all about power now! She thinks she has it - Take the power back! It is the only way, and it will make no diff. in the end! She will or she will not forgive.You can not make it happen! ("Peter: what I try to do, I do not") Just keep your dignity, answer directly to the piont-no more is needed-do not dwell. Stand tall-solid-no sign of weakness soldier. For if you show weakness you loose her respect, and she will not want you. But more importantly you do not want any woman that does not respect you. If its over it is over. If she has made up her mind to forgive, groveling may change it. STAND TALL AND BE READY TO WALKAWAY.

Answer 4

Well....The best way for me to do it would be to just leave them for a while.

Most friends don't become your friends for a while, then later on, they gradually start becoming your friend again.

It just takes time for it to happen.

Hope this 12-year-old that knows well about friends helped you ;) no this twelve year old did not help you because you should talk to this person and let them know that you're sorry for what you did to them and tell them that you hope that they think about it and find it in they're hearts to forgive you

ANOTHER ANSWER FROM USER:

I'm also twelve years old. I came looking on answers.com because I was just having the problem myself. When you said something mean to someone, or said something that they considered as "mean", say that you're sorry. My situation was let's say for example, Friend A said something mean about Friend B and I (Friend C) added on something mean to what Friend A said. So Friend B is mad at me. She isn't mad at Friend A because she has a LOT going on at home right now. I asked my friend for forgiveness by admitting to what I did. I said how much she rocked and how much I sucked. I sent her one text message asking for forgiveness...stopped bothering her and then she eventually came to me and said that she forgave me. It really worked!

Answer 5

Give her space. Once a girl is upset, it's hard to get her to forgive you and come back or speak to you again. Don't try to get her to speak to you, and she will get curious about you and come back. Act as if you don't care(when deep down you know you do). When she does talk to you again, show compassion, ask for forgiveness and change your old ways that first got you into this trouble.

Answer 6

Wait for her to cool down first. Then after a day or two confront her and tell her that your really sorry for whatever you did. After that go slowly maybe give her a card or some flowers, but don't go overboard or she'll think your trying to buy her back. Keep on telling her your sorry and take COMPLETE responsibility for it. If this doesn't work then I'm sorry my friend but ypur relationship is over

Answer 7

There is no gurantee that she will forgive you, but just apolgize, be nice to her, show her that you are really sorry, and hope that shes the forgiving type.

Answer 8

give her time and space dont be clingy

if it is something really bad you blew it

if you cheated you blew it