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Having an open and honest conversation is important in any relationship. You can express your desires by saying something like, "I've been thinking about trying something new in our intimate moments, and I'd like to explore that with you. How do you feel about it?" Remember to approach the topic with respect and be prepared for any response.

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11y ago

There's no need for you to like a straight guy ,you just need to like yourself first ,it is the most precious gift you could give yourself,Time will give you all answers O.K

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(PS:Sorry by mistake I edited original answer .This is the one byVergewe)

Pull up a chair and get comfy - this is a much more complex concept than many would imagine and so I am not holding back on the length of my reply :)

In order to get to the nitty gritty of answering the question, it is necessary to discuss some ground for understanding:

Whether it is someone's opinion or not, it is simply unethical to attempt to trick someone into liking you under false guises. I begin my answer with this statement not because I think you are intending such a thing but because this is often the only successful way to achieve what you are asking - especially if the man in question is severely homophobic.

For example, acting straight to get close to him and offering a hand of sincere friendship in that scenario could be a terrible betrayal of another human beings trust and one that surely cannot be sustained forever without the possibly very damaging truth emerging.

That said - it largely depends from which angle you ask your question. Do you mean " How do you get a straight guy to accept the friendship and sexuality of a gay guy?" or do you mean " How can you get a straight guy to fancy a gay guy?"

The first angle is the only realistic possibility.

It is generally understood that homophobic people are harbourors of deeply inset and suppressed homosexual tendencies. In this instance, it is helpful to remember that suppressed tendencies of any kind are usually most commonly a result of the environment or society that has surrounded the person. In the event that the straight guy is homophobic, it may be as simple as showing him through example that everything that he has ever thought or been taught about homosexuality is wrong and that it is not as disgusting as he may have thought.

I WOULD ADVISE YOU TO BE EITHER EXTREMELY CAREFUL IN YOUR PURSUIT OF SUCH A MAN OR AVOID EVEN TRYING TO 'WIN' HIM AROUND TO ACCEPTING YOU BECAUSE YOU MAY VERY WELL END UP BEING PUNISHED EVENTUALLY BY HIM AS A DEFLECTION OF HIS OWN PROBLEMS WITH HIMSELF.

For the ease of answering your question as best as I can I am going to assume that the guy in question is not at all homophobic and appears to be very comfortable with his heterosexuality. In this case, although it is safe to say that you really don't stand a chance in the competition with a female of his liking, it does not mean that getting him to like you is impossible.

I am a gay man and have had countless straight guy friends who not only won't stop phoning me, but swear by my opinions and advice. This is because not only are they not judgemental or threatened by my sexuality - they trust my friendship because I show them time and time again that they are safer with me than I am possibly with them lol

The very reason that these guys are attracted to me is because of the feminine qualities that they see in me - and I NEVER forget that their attractions are based on their FEMALE interest. They feel that they are with one of the lads who can provide the same quality of companionship in a friendship sense as a girl can - without the misunderstandings and irritations that can often take place between the opposite sexes.

This does not mean that they are sexually attracted to me. A straight man cannot help the way his penis points in the same capacity as a gay man cannot. There have been instances when my 'straight' guy friends have tried to pursue me sexually - and this is where the fantasy ends. They are actually bisexual and there is a BIG difference.

Simply in the end - if the guy is straight, endear him with your feminine qualities and he will draw close to you if he is not judgemental or threatened. He will NEVER try to pursue you sexually because he is simply not built that way.

If he is bisexual, exactly the same will apply except depending on you, you may or may not also end up in bed with him. Be careful not to fall in love with a bisexual man if you value monogamy - it is very painful to know that you are sharing him constantly.

So I guess my answer in short is this:

The way to get a straight guy to like a gay guy is to make him feel comfortable and show him the qualities that he is attracted to, without making him feel threatened. Don't be frugal in adorning his ego with alot of compliments. Be honest always with him though and pull away immediately if you feel that you are feeling more towards him than just friendship.

The only way to get a 'straight guy' to like a gay guy in any way sexual is for him to actually be bisexual. I am just being real. Hopefully for your sake - if he is gorgeous and you are set on him - he is masculine enough for you to be able to imagine or feel that he is straight and your fantasy will be fulfilled in that sense.

For that is what it is at the end of the day. A gay man can easily get a straight man to like him as a friend if circumstances as mentioned before allow it. For a gay man to get a COMPLETELY straight man to become sexually attracted to him without some serious deceit (Madame Butterfly comes to mind as an example) is a fantasy and will end up hurting the gay pursuer more than his target.

I hope that this has helped to answer your question.

Peace.

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13y ago

Assuming that you are a man, the short answer is that you don't.

If he is straight, then by definition, he would not let another man suck his cock.

If you have someone in mind, you need to find out whether he really is straight. If he is, you are out of luck. If not, then who knows.

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If female, you just offer. If male, does he know you are gay? If not, the double hit might cause him to freak and run. If he knows, just tell him if he has ever considered doing it with another guy you are available. Just that, push too hard and he will run. You don't get to do him and you loose a friend. You might loose him anyway just by offering. Depends on your level of friendship and how secure he is in himself.

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