How do you get a shy girl who has a crush on you to go out with you?

Answer 1

You sound like a kind and sensitive person even to ask the question.

Assuming that you like her back, ask her gently, and invite her to do something easy and nonthreatening, like an outdoor date in a public place.

• Pick a place where there is plenty to see and talk about, making conversation easier; for example, a trip to the zoo.
• Avoid situations where she would have to cope with a lot of social pressures at once, such as a party or a double date.
• Spare her the embarrassment of a potentially confusing situation (how much to cuddle in the movies, how does she look in a bathing suit, how well can she dance).

Best of all, find out what she likes or enjoys and ask her out to something in that category.

If you're not really interested in her, though, it could be rougher on her if you ask her out than if you don't.

Another answer:

Awwww that's sweet. When you ask, don't do it in front of lots of people: she'll freak out and will be more likely to say no just to avoid embarrassment. If she's with friends, maybe ask to talk to her for a minute (friends will probably start giggling) and she will blush and almost definitely talk to you in private. Then, just ask and she'll probably blush again, and give her answer.

If she said yes, maybe you two could go for ice cream after school? I don't know your age, so it's hard to answer this part. (oh yeah, make sure she's ALLOWED to date if you're in middle school or early high school)