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That depends on the level of Narcissism you are dealing with. The most dangerous ones are the borderlines. They have a tendency to be more low key therefore are very deceptive. If they are abusive (especially physical) then you are ready when you feel you have reached rock bottom. You are ready when:

  • You look in the mirror and no longer see the person that you used to be (in a positive way)
  • You feel/look as though you've aged rapidly
  • Your self esteem is non-existent
  • You blame yourself for everything going wrong in the relationship
  • You are not healthy mentally and sometimes physically (suicidal thoughts, drinking)
  • When you know deep down that the person you have given your life to - your everything to has disappeared.

I could go on but honestly to be with a narcissist is like being in a hall of mirrors. They confuse you so much that you are lost and either 1) cannot leave because you're still in love with that non-existent person or 2) you're strung out on the hope that they'll change or your love will fix it or 3) like any abusive relationiship's mental damage - you think there's no one better out there for you.

Again, depending on the level of narcissism, if you leave they might act as though they don't care (and probably don't because they REALLY DON'T CARE)and go get a new supply source (new partner - most likely they already have someone in mind). Or they might be psycopathic and become angry. They do have a tendency to try and come back into your life - especially if they know you still love them. To them that means your supply hasn't run out. Months and even years could go by... If you are going to leave then truly leave. Because the damage is so deep rooted, you won't be able to leave them in your heart for some time but you can physically leave them. No contact is the best way to go.

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A narcissist will leave you alone when they find another source of narcissistic supply they think is better/more exciting than you.

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