don't trust because if its the second time the chance has gone and so is the trust
If the spouse really loves the person that cheated then they should give a 2nd chance to other. But if they cheat again then that's when you pull out the "sharp stuff"
confront him and leave him! or atleast threten to xx
No. He or she could do it again. Unless you love them so much that you can't stand living without them. I wouldn't though.
I have, and haven't yet again.
Humans are not perfect and a woman may have only cheated once and will never do it again. You cannot judge a person by past deeds when it comes to love. If they have learned their lesson well from their mistakes they will probably never cheat again and make a good spouse. The other question is ... what if the man has cheated himself! Why would a woman take a chance on him.
Once a spouse has cheated it is difficult for the other spouse to trust them again. Often some people who cheat will cheat again. Communication skills are important and you should feel free to ask him if he is cheating again. Most likely he will not tell you the truth, but this gives you the opportunity that you have learned from before the signs of cheating and if you catch him cheating again then it's the end of the marriage.
No, once a spouse has cheated they have broken that bond of trust even though humans are not perfect and can make one mistake by cheating on their spouse. The spouse that was cheated on will always have that hurt tucked away in the back of their minds and be very wary of their spouse cheating again. However, many times a spouse may cheat; that bond of trust broken, but if it was just a one time issue then the married couple can still have a good strong marriage if they work on their communication skills and are honest with each other regarding their feelings.
Great question! But also important is how can you every trust him again. Ultimately, the answer to both questions is simple to express, but hard to do. You need to be able to "forgive" the infidelity.
No.
Not for a second. If you tolerate that, you cannot complain when it happens again. He needs to leave her alone or you need to leave him.
After the first time you found out is the time you should have sat down with your spouse and talked things out and let him know you are not putting up with his cheating. After eight times he feels quite free to do this to you over and over again. Kick this spouse to the curb if he will not go for marriage counseling.
Since love and trust are the basis of any good relationship , of course the spouse of a cheater would be having a hard time. Trust make be re-earned over time, and the burden of regaining trust is squarely on the cheater. Un til he can make the spouse feel comfortable again , things will not be the same.