You can't make someone fall in love with you, but you can take a good look at yourself and be honest. Why did you split up (ask yourself this.) Were you good to her, did you spend a good portion of your time with her, did you treat her with respect, etc. If you didn't you deserved what you got. A smart woman doesn't bother with these sorts of guys.
We all learn from making mistakes in our lives (hopefully) so take it as a lesson well learned and try to improve on how you treat a girlfriend. If you don't, you are going to be one lonely guy. Phone your ex up (if she doesn't have a boyfriend) and see if she will meet with you. If she agrees then I can't express enough that you are going to have to start really communicating to her about your feelings, why you did some of the things you did, and mean it!
also what ever you do, dont try to make them pitty you by being emotional, sad, upset in anyway, stressed, think of it as a casual dinner or date or meeting talk about them woman love to talk about themselves, stay away from the i and mes find out how they felt about things and what the main issue was, dont say you will change but say you would like there help to change and that your more than willing to make a valiant try at changeing keep in mind though change doesnt happen overnight you cant change for a week and expect it to b ok and then go back to how things were ....... you have to keep on it and make sure they understand that
Good luck Marcy
Well, no offense, but she is probably your ex-girlfriend for a reason. The sad truth is, she probably doesn't want to be with you anymore. You should probably just find a different girl. There are many fish in the sea!!
No offense meant--I am just trying to be blunt.
You can't "make" anyone fall in love with you.
You need to meet him and impress him and make him fall in love with you.
Show them some skin.
Impossible to MAKE someone love you,its something you feel not something you do.That being said you can try to keep love alive by making her feel good about herself when she's with you and let her know she's the most important person in your life and you'll always be there for her but even that doesn't insure that she will be in-love with you always but she will always have love for you as a person.
Impossible to MAKE someone love you,its something you feel not something you do.That being said you can try to keep love alive by making her feel good about herself when she's with you and let her know she's the most important person in your life and you'll always be there for her but even that doesn't insure that she will be in-love with you always but she will always have love for you as a person.
you act mysterious
The opposite of what you did to make him or her fall out of love the first time. There's no silver bullet here. Obviously something you did made him or her fall in love, and subsequently out of love. You need to figure out what it was that attracted that person to you, and how you lost that attractiveness.
Show them that you want them back by sending them a nice email
You have to try and try again with different people. Make a list of qualities that you want in a boyfriend/girlfriend and add to those as you try people out. don't fall too quickly... treat you right
give her your full attention and love HER! she will love you back! that means talk to her. dont be shy and trust her! trust is the most important thing!..
You can never really truley make someone fall in love with you. Its just noth gonig to happen but you might be able to perswade her. I mean show more of the side that she likes about you but be careful not to lose who you really are in this. Trust me it happens.
Tell him how you feel without him. Be realistic and nice.