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How can you ever get free if you had severe anxiety attacks when your narcissist dumped you and you missed him terribly and then took him back and you love him very much?
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∙ 18y ago
This miserable twit is causing your anxiety attacks! You are not happy. Think of this .... are you around him because you feel you need the comfort of company around you. I think you are confusing love with being lonely. Don't sell yourself short. Go and see a psychologist and get treatment for your anxiety attacks. I have suffered from them myself and there are medications to help you with them. You don't need this guy. Don't be afraid. Set up that psychologists appointment, get that settled and then dump this guy or you will have more anxiety attacks. Good luck Marcy Force yourself, even when it seems impossible at first, to develop yourself. Practice yoga, return to school, nurture an old or new friendship, volunteer at an animal shelter, go to the mountains or to the seashore and breathe fresh air. Love and respect yourself first and foremost. Free yourself of a lifestyle of abuse. Without a plan of your own, you will always become part of someone else's plan. Hold your head high. Learn how strong you really are. Become proud of yourself. Invite the universe to bring your way someone spectacular and kind. Allow the pleasure of letting the old narcissist slowly realize you don't want or need him anymore lift you to unexplored levels of self-fulfillment and living life. I was in the same boat as you were, I was miserably in love with a narcissist who treated me like crap!!! I couldn't eat or sleep...I couldn't understand how I could love someone so much who made me feel so terrible!!! I put up with this for two years, and I finally said ENOUGH!!!! I had the strength to let him go, and in time I met a wonderful man who is showing me how I should be treated in a relationship, which makes me even madder at myself for putting up with being in such a terrible relationship with my ex-narcissist! Everyone has their boiling point where they have the strength to walk away..you will have yours as well if he doesn't change.
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∙ 18y ago
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Should you call your ex Narcissist who dumped you two months ago and tell him you forgive him?
Please NO!
After a Narcissist discards you is it common for him to tell others that you dumped her?
Yes it happens most time. It is true.
When you got dumped by a narcissist on New Year's Eve and no calls or texts after?
Um...was that New Years Eve, 2011? Do you live in Colorado?
Will he block you out of his narcissist life?
Mine did. I dumped him and he blocked me from everything because I was so angry and called him names and wouldn't get over my anger. He said I hurt him because I called him a "coward", "a narcissist", "a jerk", "stupid", etc. so he blocked me completely.
Can you pacify a narcissist?
Not really.... it only postpones the inevitable.. YOU being dumped OR your destruction in one from or another. IF anyone gets pacified.... it will be YOU. They DONT compromise well.
The narcissist I dumped went out of his way to tell me he's over me why?
Most likely to just irritate you ... He or she couldn't handle the rejection because of their narcissism, so they had to retaliate against you so that they feel they "won" and it was they who dumped you, perhaps. Let it go ... get on with life.
If you dumped your narcissist is it common for them to fabricate a girlfriend?
narcissists are compulsive liars, I'm suprised they havent made up the fact they they are both moving to their desert island.
Do narcs hate being dumped?
Doesn't everyone hate being dumped? It would depend on the person I assume. One narcissist would be completely broken after being dumped, because it would be a bullet to their ego, whilst another may think you were just a waste of their time, and it's your fault, not theirs. Everyone is different.
Should you feel sorry for your ex Narcissist who was mean to you and dumped you?
I should feel more sorry for myself for allowing him to mistreat me. I only feel sorry for him that he treats people as he does and ends up alone..
After I dumped him why did my narcissist tell me they will wind up alone in the long run and it's actually what they want Is it a moment of truth on their part?
They are trying to make you feel bad. Don't buy it. Cut all ties and keep them cut.
What does a narcissist do when you act as if you don't care when they leave?
If it is round one they will forget you if they have a new person, in fact you will have been forgotten just before he dumped you, then when that relationship is over they will come back to you, they enjoy round two far better, shows that they have power.
Is it possible to have a friendship with a narcissist?
It can be possible to be friends with a narcissist but do not expect much from this person. Also expect the friendship not to be very fufilling and mostly one sided (on your part) The one thing that does help is that you already know that he/she is a narcissist so you will understand why they do or say most things. I say give it a shot but do not expect too much like a friendship where that person will always be there for you no matter what because that just will not happen. I know this from experience. GOODLUCK!
