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Does it? actually it will stop in time. But once in a while some flashback will hit you like a brick wall and once again it will be pain in your heart. If you still having problem how to forget your husband's affair, give yourself time. Remember time will help you ease the pain each time.
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How do you get over affair?
For those people that was hurt and betrayed by our spouse, we will never get over the pain of their affair but it will ease up slowly and surely. Time will be our weapon and it will help us to understand, all we need is never loose our faith.
Why i Had affair got divorced?
If you had an affair, your spouse must have had a very broken heart, and can not love you again, or trust you. what you do for pleasure with someone other than your spouse causes your spouse a great deal of pain, that's why it is usually frowned upon.
How do you confront a cheating spouse?
if your spouse cheated on you then he/she is no good anyway. If they really loved you, there should be no reason at all for them to cheat. You should move on (even though it might be hard) and find someone who is going to appreciate you and not take your love for granted. Someone is out there for you who is going to treat you right. Trust me!!
How can you make your spouse understand how much his affair has hurt and negatively affected you?
You probably won't. The hurt, pain and anger that you are feeling is hard for your spouse to grasp. It would be best for both of you to get counseling to work so that you both can work through the issues.
What are the consequences if your husband has an affair?
We all never think of the pain that we give to our spouse, especially if our husband decided that his getting bored to what he have. Married men never realize that when they decided to focus on other woman, their life will never be the same. Consequences that can happen if a spouse end up having affairs are; 1- hurting others- having an affair ultimately hurts people. When your spouse finds out, the hurt begins. If you have children the hurt gets even deeper. You don't intend for your children to ever find out, but they do. 2- Losing Family- 3- Trust 4- Money or financial
Do you need to know all the details of the affair?
That could be entertaining! Go for it! ANSWER: STOP, you will be making a huge mistakes. Yes it will help some but if you will rebuild your marriage, with your spouse it's not going to be easy. This affair that he or she did will stay with you for a long time. Your mind will always be in that place and it will hunt you. It will not stop because your heart is still broken and you don't have the trust. Let God solve the pain that your spouse gave you. Always remember sooner or later what goes around, comes around. Think about it and all you can do is tell your spouse your feeling, your pain, and let time heal it for you..
How do you get over the pain of your husbands 3 year affair he says he loves you but treats you badly the pain is so intense what do you do to occupy your time with this much pain?
Find a group of black men and have a gang bang without condoms. Make sure your husband comes home and catches you in the act.
How can you get through the holiday when your spouse is cheating?
You can't really unless you hide the pain.
Can you find the strength to pull your family together during the holidays after your spouse affair?
You most certainly can find the strength to pull your family together after your spouse has had an affair. Cheating is cheap; selfish; destructive and causes others pain, but in the long run it is the person who cheated that will pay the highest price in the end. It is also possible that by pulling the family together the cheating spouse may begin to see what they could lose if they continue to cheat or even if they have stopped cheating. Humans by nature are chameleons and they react to the situation they are in at the time and that is why others are so surprised when they may find out certain people are going through difficult adjustments in their marriage; work; financially, etc.
Why would someone have a bad attitude towards their husband or wife after having an affair?
This could possibly be due to quilt getting to them. Some people don't handle guilt very well, so they turn it into anger, or even try to blame their partner for the affair.If your spouse had an affair and is now displaying a bad attitude towards you, try to talk to them and find out how they do feel about the affair, and about the person with whom they had the affair. Let them know they can be completely honest, that you only want to make your marriage work. If he or she has already apologized, don't continue to berate them for the affair, but at the same time, you do deserve answers.You have a right to know why s/he had the affair, as well as why s/he has a bad attitude about it now. Maybe your spouse is struggling with the pain it's put you through, which could definitely account for a bad attitude. Just don't let your spouse try to blame you by trying to convince you that the affair was your fault for doing or not doing this or that.The two of you need to talk through everything, even if it takes days or weeks. Your spouse owes you answers to your questions, no matter how difficult it may be for him or her to give you those answers. But once you do get the answers you want or need, then you need to decide if you want to try to make the marriage work. If you do, then you will have to let go of the affair and start from the present, not going back to the past. You can't keep bringing it up once you do get the answers you need or want, or you will never be able to move forward with your marriage or your life together.
How many seconds can pain last?
Pain can last for a whole day if you wanted it to
What hurts more physical pain or emotional pain?
physical pain only last for a little while.......emotional pain can last forever
