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Does husband still love mistress even tho mistress called off 5 year affair and called his wife?
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∙ 13y ago
There's a lot of scenario that you need to look at. If your husband wasn't the one that broke the relationship with his mistress, then his feelings for her will hunt him for a while, knowing the years they spent together. You ask yourself why his mistress called you, after all this years, could it be that your husband promise her that he will divorce you or even move out so he can be with her. Maybe your husband is been promising his mistress from the start and never done anything about it, so she got fed up.
Even if this is what's going on with them, I think you need to tell your husband to move out. Don't let him manipulate you by saying sorry or he didn't mean to do it. 5 years affair is five years and no one can justify what he did with you. Don't believe everything your husband and his mistress is telling you. This is not your problem but his, so it's time for you to kick him out so this issue will not be in your hand.
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 13y agoProbably
ANSWER:
Absolutely, 5 years is a long time to be together even if it's only part time. No one can last that long to an affair if the married man didn't fall in love with his mistress. The only mistake that the two of you did was it was forbidden.
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Who's problem is it to resolve if the other woman is still contacting the wife and the married man she had the affair with?
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
Should you accept husband and mistress' child?
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
Should your wife still be in contact with him?
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
Who would you believe your husband or his ex mistress telling you that their affair wasn't plan?
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
Does the wife usually tell her husband not to talk to the mistress anymore after the affair has been discovered or does the husband make that choice?
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
How can a wife tell if husband still wants to be with the other woman?
He probably does want to be with her..... but the wife (if she found out) uses her control over him to force him into not being with her. Sometimes it depends on how deep the affair with the mistress was.
What if your spouses ex mistress does not want to stop the emotional affair?
When an ex mistress of the husband in question refuses to leave him alone it is one of two things: he is not making it clear to her that the affair is over and is still in touch with her or, she has an obsession with him and will not take no for an answer. The ball is in your husband's court and he should be looking after this problem. If he is serious about ending the relationship with his mistress and she stalking or constantly phone him or bothering him at work all he has to do is see a lawyer and get a restraining order put against her. If he refuses to do this then be wary that he does not want to completely end the relationship with her.
Im having an affair but she is still sleeping with her man?
If she is living or married to this man why would you think she wouldn't be sleeping with him because it's a relationship. An 'affair' means that one is cheating on their mate with another. Cheating is wrong and the persons cheating generally lose out.Answer:Wow I didn't know that you are jealous or even insecure about your mistress sleeping with her husband. I don't think you can predict what she will do when she's at home with her husband. If her husband didn't know that she is having an affair, I think she will be more loving towards him so he wouldn't suspect anything.I'm afraid that you don't have a leverage, because she is still married to her husband.
How mistress ruin the relationship of husband and wife?
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
Does a mistress ever physically attact the wife?
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
If a spouse told his mistress that he wants to keep his family but wants to be with her also do you have the rights to ask him for divorce?
When a husband wants to keep his family and still have his mistress, then yes, the wife has every right to file for divorce.
If a man cheats on you for four years but still wants to stay married what should you do?
Personally, i would take him back. Listen to his reasons, but if you do not think they are good enough, don't go anywhere near him. He may still have real feelings for you, don't let them go to waste. ANSWER: I think this is up to you, if you can leave with it. How did your husband had this long affair without you knowing it or did you knew it all along. I don't know the whole situation of your marriage but you must really love your husband so it's okay for him to have a second life. There's some women that can not accept the affair of their husband, including me, but yours is been 4 years now and it sound like you and your husband are still together. Can you live your life knowing that your sharing your husband with the other woman? I can't but it did happened, and my husband ex mistress was happy to tell me that we are sharing one man. What about precaution when it comes to intimacy, does your husband protect himself so he wouldn't transfer some sexual disease to you. You need to really think about this, if you don't your husband will take advantage of you. And if his affair is been 4 years now, can you really believe him that he still love you completely.
