Hey, I'm considered ugly to everyone. My friend told me that I'm ugly, and she can't hang out with me,because I have way to much pimples. I'm only 12, but I really need tips. People bully me at my school. They bully every ugly person, and everyone at my school are pretty. Please help!!
Your question voices many false assumptions and myths that many people commonly believe about themselves and others. The first false assumption is the whole beauty vs ugly debate. The media bombards us constantly with images of supposed "beauty" or "handsomeness". But here are some facts:
So therefore, most people who think they are ugly are instead beautiful just as they are. We ALL can "improve" our looks, but not because we are "unattractive" but instead, to enhance our features.
So myth #1 is that there are "ugly people".
Myth #2 is that "ugly people" must do something to become "pretty" or "handsome".
Myth #3 is that "pretty people" exist from birth or from teen years. Instead, all of us go through stages in which we (and others) pay more attention to what we LOOK LIKE. When we forget that what we "look like" is NOT who we are, inside, we can feel less confident, less attractive, and less desirable. Rather than focus on what you "look like" (in which we make a comparison of "like", for example, "The car looks LIKE a box." "My body looks LIKE a box, without curves."), we need to instead focus on who we ARE.
Myth #4 has two sides. One side boasts that people become more beautiful or handsome "with age". The more usual view is aging makes people look less attractive. However, neither one is true. Instead, people get more comfortable about who they ARE -- which is terrific! Older people often stop believing the other myths. They stop trying to LOOK LIKE some ideal of beauty-- because they realize, everyone IS beautiful / handsome. If older people choose, they can enhance their looks, just like younger people do. But many more older people decide to STOP trying to be a "look alike" and they decide to just be themselves, whether that means no make-up or covering up gray hair, or a man accepting that baldness occurs with age.
So there are no ugly people.
Ugly people therefore do not "become" beautiful people.
And therefore, beautiful people do not just become ugly because they age.
Aging does NOT mean a person "grows ugly", but instead, they grow up and grow beyond these myths.
yes u can in just 3 easy steps 1 never be mean it gives out a very ugly look 2 take care of yourself like your skin 3 makeup may help but dont use mac it can clog pores right when you put it on p.s i recomend mineral makup it helps the skin
It depends on what the source of your "ugliness" is and whether or not you're actually found ugly by a significant number of other people, or merely self-conscious about your own appearance.
Cosmetics, diet, hygeine and proper sleep and hydration are keys to physical beauty, but you will find that many people, even the so called "ugly" ones really CAN be found attractive simply by having a nice, outgoing personality.
If you really find that none of that works, there's always cosmetic surgery.
Can? Yes. Will? ... that's a different question that's impossible to answer.
"Beautiful" is a matter of taste, as is ugly. If you think you're ugly, and are wondering if your looks will improve as you age, the only way to know is wait and see. If you look at childhood pictures of movie stars, even as late as high school, most of them did not start out exceptionally attractive.
Anybody can be pretty. Most people believe they are ugly, fat, etc., when they are in fact the opposite.
Anyone can be pretty in there own way. Society makes it's own version of beauty but everyone may not agree....
yes and it can also be the opposite!
he should look up to his family and friends.
The Kardashions were very ugly as children and now they are beautiful so it is possible.
Most people when they grow up will become prettier. Make-up is mostly the cause for that.
shes not ugly and she not pretty so she is ok. it is a matter of opinion really. hai
he grew up from a ugly family and was so ugly people threw up on him
you don't look pretty when you have a ton of make up on. you look pretty when you show your face and let ppl see that you don't really care that you are ugly =| and every one is ugly or every one is pretty it really doesn't matter =]
Everyone is pretty?..I mean...if you feel ugly..express yourself in what you like to wear,and what you want to do with your hair and make-up!and if it makes you feel pretty then your pretty!you shouldent worry about what other people think,because if you think its pretty then that's all that matters, believe in yourself and then your pretty, your pretty if you believe you are;)
No. Although it happens for some people, don't count on it.
Just because you're fat and ugly doesn't mean you can't have good taste. Cheer up.
Well, there is different stages of looks, here are some: Ugly-bad looking cute-not bad. pretty-good beautiful-great hot-awesome sexy-very very very nice. gorguess-The best, the prettiest. Simply Perfect. So really, everyone has their own oppinion about you, what I have to say about whoever asked this question, you're perfect the way you are. Please look at this chart. If you are pretty, but mean: You won't have these looks forever, so don't pretend you're all that. I'm sure you'll grow up and be ugly anyways. if you're pretty and nice: You are lucky. Thank your parents for all they've given you. Because they gave you your looks. Enjoy your life, because if you do, it'll be great. If you are ugly and mean: Why are you like this? If anyone should be mean, it's not you. You're ugly, and yet you're mean to pretty people? Can't take the heat? HUH?! If you are ugly and nice: It's not the outside that matters, it's the inside. Have you read the ugly duckling? Well just like that duckling, you'll grow up and bloom, just like him. You won't have to worry anymore, as long as you believe. Many people feel bad inside all the time, they feel empty. Like nobody likes or cares for them. They feel horrible, like they'll never have friends. And they'll grow up to be fat, and they'll never have that dream life. You know, like when you see those movies. The prettiest girl in school, who could date any guy. The cheerleading captain. That's who they want to be. trust me, I've gone through it. And then sometimes, so dream girls have such a low selfasteam that they have to bully girls. So they feel like they have power, and truth be told, they'll grow up and be ugly. And what will that make you? The prettiest girl ever. If you agree with anything I just said.
They grow up.
usally mermaids are consitered pretty with lots of make up but they have no make up under the water! Nice mermaids are usally pretty mean ones are mostly ugly! But these ideas have not been proven... yet