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After a married man gets caught cheating by wife what does it mean when he said to his ex mistress he wants to still talk to her but can't right now?
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∙ 13y ago
You would only know by asking, but if he has now stopped, the ex Mistress should respect his wishes and leave him alone.
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Every married men who had an affair and get caught, will always want to talk to their mistress. Imagine the fun that they had together, those few hours that they spent together alone and far away from the world. Those phone calls that they exchange, those stolen moment they think nothing will happened to their relationship. The steepness night they have wondering and fantasizing how good it will feels to be sleeping together.
Most men who got caught cheating will be doing what needs to be done so the wife will not have to do some tragic move. From my own experience, the man that I married loves to talk to his mistress every hour of the day and night. But since I discovered his affair, he stopped calling her. But I do know that it was hard for him after all he loves her.
Definitely think about the wife - she will be feeling the most hurt that she has ever felt, but if he has stopped you must leave him be.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 13y agoIf this is the case, the married man is trying to prove to his wife that he will not be doing what he did. He is trying to make sure that his wife will start to trust him again, and by not contacting his mistress will be the number one on his list. What the wife didn't know is her husband didn't have any plan to stop seeing the other woman. If you are the wife, be wiser this time. Make sure that your husband really meant what he said, or else he will just break your heart all over again.
If you are the mistress, think what you are doing to this woman, his wife never did anything to you. She doesn't even know you but you helped her husband to destroy the life they have. If you have an ounce of decency, leave him alone, tell him that you don't want to be the cost of his wife unhappiness.
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Why would a married man who never wore his wedding ring until after he got caught cheating try to hide it from his ex mistress?
it's like a back up plan. if he gets divorce he will goto his ex mistress. It not a 100 percent right there is a chance.
If a married man told his ex mistress after getting caught cheating he can't talk 2 her right now but wants to and when the ex mistress said y did your wife tell u that he said no then why couldn't he?
it's probably because he a, was already married, and b, someone's on his tail and he doesn't want them to find out
Can you love your wife and mistress?
Sure. It is possible to 'love' more then one person. I have been down that same road before. But if you really 'LOVE' your wife then you should dump the mistress before you get caught. I had a affair for 15 years. It started before I got married and continued. Only after I caught my wife cheating on me with a ex-school friend did I see what I had right in front of me. Try to make the most of life with the person you are married to.
If a married man liked his mistress and cared for her then y after getting caught cheating he doesnt talk to her anymore cause he said he cant right now but that was 5 mths ago?
because hes scared to admit to it.. and he thinks your gonna bring it up and try to talk about it, which he wants to avoid.
What happens after mistress tells wife?
I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends). There are different situations: a) If the mistress knows he is married; b) The mistress has no idea that he is married; c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you. b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife. WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.
If a married man tells his ex mistress he can't talk to her right now after he's been caught cheating is it because his wife told him not too or something else?
Well being that obviously he disobeyed her once he's not going to not talk to his ex mistress because she told him not to because if he cheated on his wife, he probably doesn't care about her so much so he probably just needs some time to think things through.
What is right about cheating?
Absolutely nothing. it is wrong in my God's eyes, and you always get caught.
Why would a married man stop talking to his ex mistress after he got caught cheating when he told her he wants to talk to her but can't right now and hasn't talk to her for 4 mths now?
Because he is more interested in maintaining his marriage than in keeping the mistress. After four months, it's pretty clear that he wants the mistress to go away and not bother him any more. He will very likely cheat again. Just not with the same mistress. He'll want someone his wife doesn't know about. Time for the ex-mistress to move on. When she finds someone who really loves her (and doesn't just go through the motions) she will realize what a jerk her ex "friend" really is.
Why would a married man tell his mistress that he doesnt want to talk to her after he got caught cheating when she's been his long time friend for years and he sees her at work everyday?
background: married man and mistress were in a long term affair that was disclosed to wife. married man and wife separated but married man and mistress remained in contact the entire time. married vehemently denied to mistress that he wanted to reconcile with wife until the wife agreed to reconcile. ANSWER: First thing first love, as you already knew that this man is married from the start. You believed to everything he told you. You could have said no to him, but you didn't. Did you think married men who are having an affair behind their wives back will tell the truth, they will not. Most married men who cheated will never leave their family, because for years they built something together, and for them to loose and start all over again will not be their option. So if they can keep their life before they have this hunger for another woman, they rather stay with the wives and have a mistress on the side. Reality check here, he didn't have to tell you that he wanted to work on his marriage. He didn't even owe you no explanation what he is doing. Being a mistress has some perks, we only a part time lover when they need us. The rest is for his wife..
If a married man stopped talking to his mistress after getting caught cheating and she ask him y did your wife tell you too and he said no why would he lie if she did?
I guess this married man realize that he will loose a lot if he continued seeing you. What ever this married man and his wife talk about, is your business. You don't have the right to be concern nor upset that he lie to you ,if he really lie to you. You knew that he is married when he approaches you, and that didn't stop you. If I were you I will move on. Stop connecting with him. If he tried to contact you again, don't response. Get your own life and find a single man that can respect you.
Why would a married man tell his ex mistress after being caught cheating he can't talk to her right now so he doesn't look or talk to her for 4 mths but now starts to look at her more and more?
this is an opinion i think he thought or he still thinks and you would be less mad or you would forget about it so maybe he is trying like to start all over again
How can you tell if a married man has?
Has what ? Need more info . ANSWER: She is right, we need more information. Are you wondering if this married man has a mistress or transmitter decease.
